Should I just accept things have ended?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is is really confusing. For several days I won’t hear from him then out of the blue he will finally send me a text that he's been busy. This isn’t his first second or third time doing this. Few months ago he went 10 days without talking to me and sent me a text on the 9th day that he was busy. On the 10th day he tells me that he wasn’t just busy but that he wasn’t in the mood to text me at all either.

I ask him questions like does he want to break and he gets mad at me for asking questions like that.

[Nawlins34]

If you're waiting for him to SAY it, stop waiting. It's over. He may not be capable of saying it.

But he IS saying it with his ACTIONS.
"For several days I won’t hear from him then out of the blue he will finally send me a text that he's been busy" - See? He just confirmed that he isn't aware that his actions speak for him. You already knew this based on his actions.

He also basically said you're not important enough to make time for.

"This isn’t his first second or third time doing this." - Then it's a consistent message via his ACTIONS. You're not important to him.

"On the 10th day he tells me that he wasn’t just busy but that he wasn’t in the mood to text me at all either." - Again, he thinks nothing is noticed until he SAYS something... he's been saying that for as long as this has been an issue.

"I ask him questions like does he want to break and he gets mad at me for asking questions like that." - He's not emotionally mature, that's why.

He's not the guy. You don't have to wait because he won't provide it.
I say end it and heal, process your emotions and move on.

Don't keep a friendship with him. It won't work.

If you find a man's words and actions don't match, go by his ACTIONS.

Be safe and good luck.

[boggboss]

They ain't needed because your are still together but the relationship sounds shit

[faithgrace4u]

I think maybe it is time. Just in case though talk to him about why he doesn't want to talk to you if he's "lazy" then he's probably not the guy for you. For all you know he could be cheating on you. [ i'm sorry i wasn't sure if i should write this] but he's literally not talking to you for weeks and I think that even if he's not cheating on you he isn't the one and he's definitely not a good boyfriend

[faithgrace4u]

well you should break up if you don't want to you might not have to but being single is way funner then that crappy relationship [ you are not the cause he is]

[LazerBean]

End it. May as well not be in a relationship at that point.