I sent him a risky text and it’s taking him a while to answer my text why?

[Anonymous]

Basically I asked how he felt about our date. He should either admit that he likes me or say that he’s not interested. During our date he was awkward and shy. Why is it’s taking him a while to answer my text?

[ArtemisSilver]

So he wasn't sure about you, so you sent him an ultimatum? 😅

Holy shit that's epic cringe. He's probably wondering if you're crazy.

[Asker]

It wasn’t ultimum. Just a question….

[ArtemisSilver]

You asked an all or nothing question. That's an ultimatum.

[Asker]

I just asked what he things about the day. He can say whatever he wants

[Asker]

I did’t say either you like me or not

[one1wild00]

He may be surprised from your text and is trying to pen the exact right words, I'm guessing its a very good thing he is taking so long

[Asker]

I don't know it’s making me nervous

[Asker]

If he didn’t like me wouldn’t he just say sorry I’m not feeling you?

[one1wild00]

I'm saying I think he likes you

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[one1wild00]

Because that sounds like me, fretting over just the right words to respond back especially if I didn't know the girl real well

[Asker]

If he wasn’t interested wouldn’t he quickly say so…

[Asker]

Or maybe he just doesn’t want to hurt me…

[one1wild00]

Thats why I'm thinking slower text he like you, quicker text he may not at this stage of the dating

[Asker]

Is it common that guys take their time with these kind of texts?

[one1wild00]

Sometimes, If he really li9kes you and it also may be he is unsure how you will react.

[Asker]

What if he didn’t like me how would he reply?

[one1wild00]

It would be a quicker that was ok.

[Asker]

If he didn’t like me he would answer more quicker?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because it’s a text. It’s not like a time bomb goes off if it’s not answered. If you wanted to know sooner why didn’t you call him?

[Asker]

We were chatting when I sent that. It was night though 11pm.

[User_69]

Maybe he shared your text with some of his friends and they are making brain storm about reply.

[Asker]

Is that a good thing? If he didn’t like me wouldn’t he just say sorry I’m not feeling you?

[User_69]

Is he shy?

[Asker]

Yes, at least based on the date.

[User_69]

Yes if he is shy as i said maybe he is asking to one of his friend "what am i have to do or what should i say "?
Or If he is shy he can't say that i dont feel anything so we should stop talking.

As i said there 2 possibilities thats my idea.

[Asker]

I was late on date. He replied” do you mean when you was late on date :D I forgot about that long time ago”

Tbh I wanted to know how he felt abou the whole thing. Why is he acting dumb…

[Asker]

About the whole*

[spartan55]

How many dates have you been on with him?

[Asker]

Just one

[spartan55]

Then you probably scared him off. What you said was not a good idea.

[Asker]

I just asked him how he felt about our meeting. I didn’t ask him do you like me or not. I just want to know is he attracted to me etc

[Asker]

by the way I was late on date. He replied” do you mean when you was late on date  I forgot about that long time ago”

Tbh I wanted to know how he felt abou the whole thing. Why is he acting dumb…

[spartan55]

Did he ask you on a second date?

[In_Trance]

he's busy

[Asker]

I wanted to know how he felt abou the whole thing. That’s why I ssked him ”how did you felt about our meeting”
by the way I was late on date. He replied” do you mean when you was late on date  I forgot about that long time ago”

Tbh I wanted to know how he felt abou the whole thing. Why is he acting dumb…