
My photo has brought so many dm's, do you know why?


You look bangable, and that's about it. Congratulations you have shallow vapid attention on tap. It's why my profile picture is Honkler the Clown now. I got tired of fags and clueless chicks hitting on me all the time... mostly a bunch of fags though. The clueless chicks catch the hint faster than the faggots.
With you being a female though, it's gotta be 10X worse. Every beta SIMP that has no IRL action probably shoots their shot or wants to orbit you as if that will help them one day. It's sort of sad if you think about it. Like really read their DM's with that knowledge on your mind, and you'll see how pathetic they are... seething in desperation. I say 10X worse because I bet they're dudes... and just like the fags, they probably don't catch any hint of rejection and just fuck off.
you were turning down girls? and if I don't like Beta simps as you say, does that make me an alpha female? or just, a female I don't know lol.
I didn't reply to any of them unless we did talk on the forum but even like that, they get weirder and eventually I have to peace out
Hell yeah I was turning down girls... I wouldn't come to a site like this just to sext with someone I'm never going to touch with my penis. Just don't have time for that kind of stuff. Plus it's the internet... probably was getting catfished half the time.
I would say you're just a female and wouldn't apply Alpha or Beta to you unless I knew way more details about your personality... I say Beta for the dudes because think about it, why would an Alpha dude that just got through railing 3 or 4 different chicks that week be stalking chicks on the internet? see my point there. I think I apply that same standard to the the weirdo chicks that was hitting me up... what kind of chick even does that? Something is wrong with those chicks just like there's something wrong with dudes that do that.
it's funny you say that cause a few months ago I tried to find out who I've been talking to for a few years online, he sent me photos but he's very handsome and I just couldn't wrap my head around it. we never spoke on the phone or FaceTimed and he always had an excuse why we couldn't meet. he never asked me for money but he was exactly as you say someone to sext who will never touch me. we met during covid on Twitter, and the connection was good, not the absolute best, but good enough for me to stay interested for years. he knew exactly how to say the things I wanted to hear. and he said he wasn't seeing anyone and hoped i wasn't either, except he wasn't going to come forward. so I understand, it is a huge loss if you never intend to really do it. maybe it was a life lesson. but anyway you're right Mr d bone steak
Oh yeah... anything online in the romance sense of things can end up just being a huge waste of time. The only time online to real life things worked for me was when the whole point from the start was to meet and have sex. If the meet and greet part isn't being met right away, I would cast doubt on the whole situation. Like take this guy you've been talking to for years... that's years of texts you could've been spending with a guy that would be willing to meet you in person and thus securing a real bond with someone real and touchable. I've only been playing Eldon Ring for a few weeks and I have over 300 hours stacked up... on a game. A game where I seem to be best at dying all the time. Imagine that time being spent on petting a dog... that dog would die for me after that much time. The same goes for our human to human interactions... like you find that much face to face interaction in real life and you're probably going to have a bond for life going on. TL;DR version: If it's online and isn't getting into real life stuff... best to keep it platonic as fuck and use it for entertainment or pure interest grabbing purposes only. It won't be a good investment of time in the long run.
the catfishes took advantage of covid to blame the waiting game, once it blew over, now it's been over a year or more to get to the point that they can't meet you. although I do live with my aunt and cousin and for some reason they still are working remotely and no expectation to go back to the office anytime soon. so I don't know, either way he was supposed to be able to call and talk, that has nothing to do with spreading a disease. and you're right, I knew I sucked at time management and priorities but this really blew up in my face. i still miss whoever that person was a lot, it's been almost 90 days so i know i can do this, the no contact thing and just hope he finally sees how ridiculous he's being and maybe he'll actually want to try, but if not, at least i had something cause I don't want to meet these "real" people they suck lol. it's the words that sold me.
These dudes on your DM's though... it is pretty pathetic if you put it into perspective. It can be an ego boost but don't let it get to you or start to make you think you're more awesome than anything in reality... it's just horny guys that really... really are deprived of some good things in life. I can feel sorry for them but nah... it's really kind of twisted when I think about their circumstances too much. But take that advice from a random internet clown that now uses Pepe the frog as an avitar. Random attention has falsely boosted my ego here and there and I finally got to the point to figure out nobody will chase down or have the hots for a cartoon frog. Try it, it's like a night and day difference. ... and my DM's has been pretty much clean ever since I took off my abs and muscle profile pics. I haven't had one weirdo hounding me since that change.
that's what my question was, if I'm not showing my body, I shouldn't have a problem. lol you know like how do we explain to our children, that even just showing your face from the neck up, is enough to lure a psycho with no boundaries. and they are getting very clever, cause they're not on dating sites, they're on regular platforms disguised as someone who likes the same things you do, that's how I was taken, he had a profile set up to be a selena gomez fan account, and I had one so we talked naturally, then you can see his likes on Twitter and it's all onlyfans girls. that was during the first year we talked, I cut him off and deleted my account, eventually he texted the number I gave him 7 months later, saying he wants to reconnect and all the things he misses and remembers, which had nothing to do with nudity. you think only stupid people fall for this stuff but just like marketing, there's a market designed exactly for the kind of person you are, to get your money or support. a great example, selena gomez herself.
Hell yeah... I think you're 100% correct on all of that. Wasn't Selena Gomez a chick that got shot by an obsessed person? I guess that would be the scary direction it could go. I wouldn't suggest fucking with that kind of bullshit at all. A pretty face... or muscles and abs, it can be a literal curse.
lol omg that's selena, not selena gomez, thats who she's named after
Oh shit... I seen a movie one time when I was stoned out of my mind so that's all I know about it. lolz
You seem nice, genuine, and accessible. The "nice" and "genuine" are pretty straightforward: you seem like you are a pleasant person with a real smile that implies a positive attitude. And you are pretty without being SO pretty that you get buy on your looks alone (girls like that often have horrible personalities and values), and you are dressed casually with minimal makeup and without a fancy hairdo, so you are low-maintenance and not hyper-focused on your image, as so many women are today.
This means that "average" guys - meaning guys who are somewhere between a 4 and an 8 out of 10 - feel like they might realistically have a chance with you, whereas if they thought you were a 9+, they know they'd have no chance at all (short of paying for it).
and yet- I cannot find a boyfriend to save my life lol. thank you i appreciate the clear communication
You need to make it crystal clear that you don't do hook-ups, and that you are only interested in serious relationships (and you need to find such guys LOCALLY - do not waste your time with online "relationships"). Yes, most guys will scurry away, and a few will try to change your mind, but you need to stand your ground. You will find a few serious guys in the mix, and choose from those.
There could be lots of reasons:
1. They thought you were pretty and were interested
2. They’re just horny bastards
3. They wanted someone to talk to or something to do
They could have any and every intention
You look pretty and nice so I guess guys are attracted to you.
To be honest I don't even have a picture here and I still get so many message requests
that's what's the mystery is, maybe it's not, but the first they talk about is the photo, what do they talk about with you
wow that's ironic and sad lmao like either they know and acknowledge or they want to know
and thank you by the way
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Because the dudes on this site are desperate weirdos lol
You don’t have to post or say anything sexual, and you'll still see opinions from dudes saying creepy shit. I feel bad for the women on this site cause I know their dms are probably filled with old mens dick pics
actually gag dm doesn't let you post photos, probably for that reason. if he asks you if you have snapchat, that's a red flag gotta start running away. and you make a valid point, still, this is crazy. there's gotta be some logic behind this madness aka me at everything that happens in life lmao
If I had to guess?
First off let's say you got a 1000 guys here. 600 are going to message pretty much any female. Because it's a numbers game.
You aren't real attractive. So that may entice another 100 or so thinking "well, she looks like an avg. Girl so maybe I have a shot".
But either way, remember this is G@G and it's the internet. It really doesn't MEAN ANYTHING.
oh really, what makes you say that? is it cause I'm too natural to be REAL attractive lol
That's kind of what I'm talking about. You don't seem to be mugging for the camera. It seems like a natural smile... but I don't know... now you're making me overanalyze this lol.
Mine was a gut reaction.
yeah my confidence is not at the level where id be making love to it or showing all of me in one photo without like the caption going into long detail explaining as if I need to justify why I want to show my stuff lol. I'm an anxious fuck but cheesy, dorky, silly. who knows whose type that is, but it does show some success in the past.
Well I'd continue to roll with it then if it's working. Dating is stressful enough. Being, silly, dorky, flawed is tension relieving.
Women that duckface, that use many filters, that show overhead shots to accentuate their cleavge and hide their bellies, women that strike clearly sexually suggestive poses, I could keep going but I won't. These just annoy me because all these women are telling me is she thinks I'm not smart enough to see what they're doing. It doesn't matter how good she looks if she's a manipulative person.
Depends on what the DM's say. I suppose you could ask the people who DM you.
But anyways. If it is perverts then... They are just pervs not much else to it. They perv on everyone. If you get that stuff then I am sorry about that
Because you are attractive and seem very friendly and approachable
It happens whenever you put a real photo of yourself on GaG, guys will flock to you like a swarm of thirsty birds.
https://youtu. be/-TcLxlkc2pA
You are beautiful and pretty good look. And you seems friendly nature girl and yes your smile is so good l.
You’re pretty and you look friendly. I guess it attracts guys.
it's the breadwinner of my face. thank you by the way you're the best
No prob 😊
Just take the W and stop second guessing everything about it. It's exhausting.
You're exhausted? imagine my mind
it's the way it's said. you know how when someone is trying to sell you something and says something like this would like great on you because you have the bone structure or whatever, that's what guys sound like when they compliment a girl, fake and phony and mischievous.
I have no idea other then your a young female
By the way
Great smile, you wear it well
its the cheesy grin that somehow made me dorky growing up that has translated into a sex symbol. not that I'm not still dorky. very much so. thank you
That's smile may be dorky, I still have mine.
A smile says your a nice person, people who don't smile are usually very nasty evil people
I do notice that girls do not smile in photos. they want to be mysterious and not show their teeth lmao. and also to show their lip makeup, which when I do wear it, yeah I get it. but regardless, it's a photo, you smile. 90s fashion
You talking about my profile photo. That's a photo of my great grandfather. That photo was taken in the 1930s and then colorize.
My great grandfather was a famous photo journalist in though 1930s and 1940s
I admit that I don’t either but what lofi said. I’m not in your dms cause you posting pictures of yourself or any other girls dms that feel the need to do that
tell me other than this photo, what I posted lmao
What do you mean? I’m confused my bad
I know the kind of women you're talking about, and i am not posting pictures like that, this is my profile picture, which I chose to make me like you're actually supposed to do. not like Twitter and tumblr or YouTube where your photo is a avatar or some random object lol
Right right
Do you want more DM's?
Because this is how you get more DMs..
actually on the contrary, it has slowed down since this question was posted
Some people cannot stand a nice normal looking girl without making a rude classles comment. basically if you do not have anything nice to say do not say anything
Your natural beauty? Your sincere smile attracted their attention, I guess
You are female. You will always get attention even when you don’t want it..
but how come when we do pay attention to guys, they usually tell us to go away or ignore us?
Could be you waited too long, insulted them and it got back to them in some way. They found a new interest… could be a whole lot of thing. Guys (especially the ones I know) don’t wait around forever for a woman to finally decide they like them. If you are interested GREAT… if you not, great, they move on. This is the new age of the modern male. They don’t try to pursue anymore. Life is too short for that.
hm yeah I don't know it feels like it's such a short window to make a good impression with a guy. I feel like we collectively loo at the entire picture and then make a decision, being cautious, like Anna in frozen, and by the time we're like yes, that's when they're like nah I'm good, even though they don't have anything set in stone yet, they'd still rather move on. but eventually you move on so frequently I mean thats exhausting to be meeting new people all the time and developing a connection, sexual or not, in my opinion.
look****
You are exactly right. A lot of time it’s a pride thing. She shut me down. I don’t want her anymore. Sometimes they genuinely do have and want someone else. But for guys, it’s a bit different when meeting new people. It’s a lot less effort I feel like for us than for women. I feel like you all put so much effort into looking good, being a certain way (and society puts a lot of pressure on you all for that), and acting a certain way, that it gets exhausting for you. Men, we can literally go to a bar, see another dude, say sup, and drink in silence for the majority of the night and feel comfortable. Or we can carry a conversation with a woman, if she is easy to talk to and reciprocates back. It’s not hard. But I agree with most everything you said. I’m not a woman so I wouldn’t begin to start saying what a woman should do in that situation. All I’m saying is what I’ve thought through the years and what my guy friends and I talk about and have done throughout the years
The internet is filled with pathetic virgin loser simps that will latch on to any female that looks real on the internet.
Which is why 3’s believe they are 9’s and 10’s
oh i see, I look real
You said you were looking for a boyfriend so might as well shoot my shot.
:0 you're the one who got triggered about my comment on Hispanics lmao
Welcome to media on the internet!
People get attracted by ideas these days...
A good smile and you're outside, instead of taking a selfie in a mirror. So you don't look so self obsessed.
You’re experiencing first hand how simple and easy it is for a woman to get attention from men.
I think you have an open and friendly face, inviting... I guess
the majority agrees with you
You have a sweet, friendly approachable face. You look like a great young woman
Nothing great but would like to see reaction while banging you. Lol
what do you mean?
you have a vagina that simple lol
do not over complicate it
You’re cute bruh and natural
You just look like a nice kid.
I was a bus patrol so I guess I am huh
a lot of guys on gag don't get no pussy
you could go as far to say that I am also, not getting any. but I still am not running at every somewhat appealing guy i see.
It's your beautiful smile that is captivated.
so smile is inviting, thus, the messages
you recognize me? and you can just click on it normally, I was assuming that's what others were doing
Yes I do. I think I'm following you so normally you often appear in my notification. I never got to talk with you until now because I thought to myself you have your group of people you converse with. It only because I see this particular post I commented because you are truly beautiful in your pic.
oh well people follow me but we've never talked before so, I rarely follow unless we have. and your picture brings up a lot of questions that I may not want to know the answer to. but thank you
Just because you're female probably.
You have a nice smile and seem genuinely happy
It’s a nice selfie that is a reason
Because Simp Nation is a real thing.
You're a female. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have a friendly face
Thirsty guys...
Your block head
You are cute and female.
i dont know. why
They want your body
how do you want someone's body that you haven't seen before lol
Trust me they want you. There was a new girl at my work and all the man whores at my work ran to her and got her number except me because I wasn’t interested with her. Enjoy the attention
that's cause you saw her irl so I mean you have an idea of what shape she is. I actually have posted one body picture on here and majority said I'm chunky, so you'd be surprised. I guess you gotta have it all these days am i right
There’s guys out there who wants chunky women and I’m sure they won’t care about it
the attention was coming from both genders when i was slim, many years ago. I've recently put the pieces together since I'm losing weight now, i think my weight was a defense mechanism. now that everyone has noticed, I suddenly wanted to stop losing weight cause once I go down this number, life is gonna be like it was back then, and i don't think I'm emotionally ready for that again just yet.
You very pretty
No idea.
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