An old friend from college turns out to like me but I know it won’t progress, I don’t know what to do?

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First year of college I got In a long term relationship and so did he, kept contact a little.

3 years later and we both break up with our partners and match on tinder, I don’t think very much of it. We spoke a little and again it faded out.

then later he tells me his friends are interested in me which of them do I find the most attractive and sends me a picture of them with him in the middle. I’m annoyed and drunk while this happens and decide to shoot my shot and tell him the one in the middle, he seems very closed off acts confused and we stop talking immediately and I get the message that he’s not interested and thought I would no longer hear from him.

I went out clubbing Friday night and he calls my name from across the smoking area, being drunk as a cunt by this point I run over to him and give him a very long hug. I hadn’t actually seen him in person in about 2 years and couldn’t control myself we talked for 2 minutes and I left. Later him and his friends stole a big pair of sunglasses I had on my head and we resumed flirting and all of a sudden we were snogging. The only thing I could think was that I knew he liked me and this solidified it. I get more and more drunk and apparently he’s talking about ruining my insides and askes me to come over to his so me and my friend jump in a taxi with them all.

I was very down for having sex with him as I have liked this guy for years and I just couldn’t control myself but it never happened. We stayed until 9 in the morning
and I just couldn’t make out if he wanted to or not and I eventually decided after thinking about it properly that it would be best to go home so that’s what we did.

I don’t know how to move around this guy, I know now that he at least wants me sexually. I don’t know how to get him to stay in contact with me or what to say to him. I can normally move round guys with ease and know exactly where I stand with them but this guy constantly has me on my toes and I never know how he feels.
An old friend from college turns out to like me but I know it won’t progress, I don’t know what to do?
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