How to deal with a guy whose hot and cold ?

[cth2188]

I’m contemplating just blocking him , but he seems to be a great guy? We haven’t met , but he’s rushing to meet and I barely know him.. like we just met last week and barely talk.. he texts me sparingly.. weren’t not dating , but I told him I don’t rush into relationships or anything..

i accidentally called him and he called back saying nothing on the phone.. I don't know if I have a weirdo here.. I’m just putting myself out here after 8 years of being single with little to no experiences with men..

[SometimesASiren]

Hot and cold guys have issues going on that you can't see. Usually they have nothing to do with you as a person and everything to do with them. It could be anything from secretly having a partner to being consumed by something such as mental health issues, unrequited feelings for someone else, addictions, etc.

Any guy who goes cold for no reason (or silly reasons) is a waste of time. That said, it's time to bounce!

[cth2188]

I’m gone.. he messages me again he’s wasting my time

[Berethor]

So you consider yourself a bisexual now? I thought that you are lesbian. :)

[cth2188]

Who said anything about bisexual and lesbian? Why is sexuality being mentioned?

[cth2188]

Too many personal questions