If he considers me as a friend, why wouldn't he treat me as just a friend?

Anonymous
We've been talking for half a year and, gosh, it's been so confusing and time-consuming and nothing's changing. We're just stuck with the talking. I don't even think he'd commit. He has given me a lot of mixed signals and when I try to define the relationship, like who am I to you, what are we, why are we talking with each other like this then, etc. he'd just brush it off and beat around the bush. He said he likes me. I also like him, but one day, I finally woke up with this realization that he's experiencing this couple stuff with me without actually being in a relationship with me. But whenever I try to pull away, he would send me messages after a week or two like how have you been doing, it's been a while, I really miss you blah blah blah. Do you think he's being selfish for not letting me have some peace? Because I do think he's so damn selfish. If he considers me as a friend, why wouldn't he treat me as just a friend? Or is he probably tryna keep me like a spare tire or something like that?
If he considers me as a friend, why wouldn't he treat me as just a friend?
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