Guys, why are you doing this?

[Anonymous]

I am currently dating a guy. If we’re together physically, he’s sooooo sweet.
But if we’re not together, he’s kinda cold specially on texting. He even reply my messages after a few hours, but he’s online on his social media. I’m confused!!!

[Vichara]

Take it from another guy, he’s treating you as an option. When a guy is head over heals for a woman it won’t be confusing or unclear, he will show it. This goes both ways. When you are really into someone you want to talk to them all of the time. You don’t forget or put it off. He plays games and sends mixed signals to keep you around though, because this is convenient/fun for him while he waits for what he really wants. At the beginning of a relationship it could be because he is trying to find the right words and isn’t getting back right away. After you guys have already warmed up though, no. Out of self respect, I’d say cut your losses with that dude. Best of luck

[IJhonnyI]

See this is a question that's logical, I'm that type of person personally me I am way better at treating someone in person then over text why I can't give you a specific reason it's like something positive takes over me when I'm in person but when it comes too text I don't even know what too say long story short horrible texter amazing in person (hope this helped at least a little bit) (kinda hard to explain)

[IJhonnyI]

And when it comes too in person I can physically treat you but over text like I said i don't even know😂(I don't ignore people tho)

[In_Trance]

I really don't understand logic on this.
Why not enjoy every single second you have together and equally enjoy every moment you have to yourself when you're not?
If you temporarily go your separate ways and keep communicating you might as well stay together.
Everyone needs time for themselves

[cloud9vortex1234]

You're already seeing him in person. The text shouldn't be as important in those instances. Also, you can't really judge someone's state of mind as well through text.

[SlothySlob]

If you want to be with this man, you need start to trust him. If you can't trust him, you'll have a bad relationship with him.

[Anonymous]

Remember when keeping tabs on a person’s online activity and comparing it to their texting response time was something that only a psycho would do?

[IsoUser]

Sounds to me personally like he's looking for a new girl

[MrOxford]

Maybe he just doesn’t like texting. I ignore texts from everyone if I’m with someone else.

[Anonymous]

He hates texting?