You should not worry about that. As long as you are a good woman I don't think it is a big deal at all. (there are many men who are the same way, and they aren't ugly or creepy or anything like that)
Not necessarily a red flag, it would beg the question why you haven’t tried earlier, but if your reasoning makes sense than not a problem. It is more a big responsibility not to screw this up and lose someone who doesn’t have all the modern feminist problems or hang ups and who is still a whole person.
Pressure? Not at all. I actually like being the one she get the experience from.
I dated a girl like that. We were both 20, I only had a little experience and she had none. As in barely kisses anyone. But by the time we split she was a master kisser.
We never had sex and she never gave handjobs or blowjobs but we did a LOT of dry humping and groping and such.
I don't see why it would off putting to a guy. I guess you won't have your boundaries as worked out at this point as a girl who has dated a lot. You have to start somewhere Girl!
I wouldn’t feel any pressure at all. It would be an honor to be real to take you on your first date. I would treat you like the the queen you are and call it a day! I think it’s a turn off to have too much experience and too high of expectations. You are so much better off waiting for the right person versus wasting your time with a bunch of pecker heads.
No that would been less pressure, if I was one that actually competeded in that stuff. It wouldn't affect anything, because if she is to focused on material things on a first date you know she isn't worth it.
There might be some kind of pressure as to have her first experience be a pleasant one. But I would do it anyway, because I think I could deliver and she chose me.
there is an old saying, practice makes perfect. If you don't try it, how do you ever expect to get better at it? NO, books will NOT teach you what to do or when or how.
If you are saying you are also a virgin that is going to be a turn off for me. I don't mind teaching some of the finer points of sex but to start at the beginning with someone is not for me. Go get yourself laid a few times and then come look me up.
Not at all.. I would be keen on finding out if it was a life choice, or just by not finding the right guy to go out on a date with.. Red flag? That wouldn't even enter my head!
There are all different kinds of guys out there. A lot of them would not even think twice about something like that. Most guys would be too busy enjoying your company to think about it.
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You should not worry about that. As long as you are a good woman I don't think it is a big deal at all. (there are many men who are the same way, and they aren't ugly or creepy or anything like that)
Not necessarily a red flag, it would beg the question why you haven’t tried earlier, but if your reasoning makes sense than not a problem. It is more a big responsibility not to screw this up and lose someone who doesn’t have all the modern feminist problems or hang ups and who is still a whole person.
Nope, I would not feel the pressure. In fact, I would try to teach her what can be looked in a guy, while dating.
I would be understanding and other things.
Pressure? Not at all. I actually like being the one she get the experience from.
I dated a girl like that. We were both 20, I only had a little experience and she had none. As in barely kisses anyone. But by the time we split she was a master kisser.
We never had sex and she never gave handjobs or blowjobs but we did a LOT of dry humping and groping and such.
I don't see why it would off putting to a guy. I guess you won't have your boundaries as worked out at this point as a girl who has dated a lot. You have to start somewhere Girl!
No not at all I find it kind of cute 🙊 that you worry so much about that. Some people start early some date later, I don´t mind much.
I wouldn’t feel any pressure at all. It would be an honor to be real to take you on your first date. I would treat you like the the queen you are and call it a day! I think it’s a turn off to have too much experience and too high of expectations. You are so much better off waiting for the right person versus wasting your time with a bunch of pecker heads.
No that would been less pressure, if I was one that actually competeded in that stuff. It wouldn't affect anything, because if she is to focused on material things on a first date you know she isn't worth it.
There might be some kind of pressure as to have her first experience be a pleasant one. But I would do it anyway, because I think I could deliver and she chose me.
there is an old saying, practice makes perfect. If you don't try it, how do you ever expect to get better at it? NO, books will NOT teach you what to do or when or how.
If you are saying you are also a virgin that is going to be a turn off for me. I don't mind teaching some of the finer points of sex but to start at the beginning with someone is not for me. Go get yourself laid a few times and then come look me up.
Gross, I would never sleep with a guy your age. Appreciate the offer tho.
Your loss, hope you find what you are looking for.
I think that I could handle that :D
But then - I'd wonder what she expects from an old fart like me. Heh heh.
Not at all.. I would be keen on finding out if it was a life choice, or just by not finding the right guy to go out on a date with..
Red flag? That wouldn't even enter my head!
if your up front with him about it most guys wouldn't mind.
That's gross
No. Probably the opposite. I mean if the date goes bad she has no point of reference to compare it to. Lol
No pressure, I think that would be attractive and take some pressure off myself. Because I usually feel like I have lack of experience also.
No I wouldn't feel any pressure but it would get my mind working fast to make sure she gets a very good experience from it
There are all different kinds of guys out there. A lot of them would not even think twice about something like that. Most guys would be too busy enjoying your company to think about it.
I might act a bit different, but I wouldn't have a problem with it.
Na I don't have the most experience either so I'd be saying the same thing
No I would not feel pressure. I would do my best to make her feel comfortable, show her what a good time she can have with a man.