Why do so many men think its okay to pass comments on a woman's body?

[Goth_cat]

Almost every guy i know does this and its sickening

[HighValue]

Because most women want attention. That is why they dress provocatively out in public, but not at home alone or when with an SO at home. They purposely do it for attention in public.
Of course there are plenty that deny it because they are LIARS.

And they make plenty of comments about men's looks too, even though most men DO dress the same in public or when with an SO or at home.

[Goth_cat]

Actually most of us wear pretty revealing clothes at home too , you probably make your family members uncomfortable so they prefer covering themselves up 🙂 . All i can understand from your paragraph is that you're one sad lonely man

[HighValue]

I just understand that you dress like a slut for attention. And no, most don't wear that at home.

[Goth_cat]

Like i said you definitely make people uncomfortable, which is pretty evident , so probably cover up in front of you and well im not arguing with 40 something year old man , i wouldn't wanna screw up that blood pressure.

[FilmGuy93]

Society has serious problems with boundaries.

[Goth_cat]

Thank you , absolutely

[Blackcosmo]

It depends on how they say it. If a guy normally comes up to you and says "you're so pretty" or something like that in a non sexual way then it's a compliment. it's different when it's a sexual comment or when it's catcalling because that is unacceptable.

[Goth_cat]

Yes absolutely

[Anonymous]

Almost every guy you know does this? Wow, you hang out with some shitty guys

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like it when guys say almost every girl today is a gold digger, a slut or a whore? I know that pisses me off. And you're no different than those guys are.

[Gent207]

I think you are missing some context like the following:
"Hey I love your nails" vs. "Hey nice tits"
Which one of these is degrading?
If you say both than it's your attitude not society.

[Goth_cat]

Obviously the second one. The first one is sweet , second one NO

[KrakenAttackin]

@Goth_cat. If you are sticking your tits out with huge cleavage it's obvious you want people to look at your tits.

[Gent207]

@KrakenAttackin yeah that's an example of a bullshit attitude too.
What if the woman had lost a ton a weight and was finally feeling confident in her own skin or she was breastfeeding and was engorged and unable to pump?
I can think of a few dozen situations in which your bulldhit attitude is just plain toxic and wrong.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Gent207. I don't comment on women's tits but if they are showing cleavage for all the world they should expect all kinds of attention. If you don't want the attention, put the girls away.

[Blackcosmo]

@KrakenAttackin Cleavage showing clothing can look really pretty and stylish. Women aren't always looking for attention.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Blackcosmo B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T.

[Blackcosmo]

@KrakenAttackin Oh well that's what you think. Proves you can't be reasoned with.

[Carolus]

Because it’s the way it is, it’s a natural phenomenon that a woman attracts and that’s biology, her physical features are built and meant to be attractive to a mans eye, ever asked yourself why a woman naturally feel it appealing to dress scantly?

[Goth_cat]

there's a difference between liking a dress and liking a woman. Men often forget women are actually people

[Carolus]

I don’t condone body shaming and such but men have to be allowed to appreciate beauty. Actual women dress and wanna look attractive to attract, so there isn’t non wrong if a man is captured. Ever asked your self why in music videos, men are in clothes while women are in bikinis? Because women are comfortable and ok with it and want to attract.

[Goth_cat]

Oh my god stop for God's sakes. There's plenty of music videos with shirtless men too. Dont come up with literal random bullshit atp. You wanna appreciate beauty? Go and appreciate the women who you're actually with and leave the rest of us alone. Women are not existing to be a delightful sight for the male gaze

[Carolus]

Right now am am actually with no one, can I be with you?

[MrOracle]

If I had to count the number of women who have commented on my body, I would need at least 4 digits. Women don't have any problem doing exactly the same thing.

[RingusUrDingus]

Sounds like they were negative. You wouldn't mind if they were positive.

Better question you should ask is "why do so many women think only positive comments on a woman's body are ok?"

you're welcome.

[Goth_cat]

Why would you wanna comment negatively on someone's body? What is this fucked up need of yours to say something about someone's else's body? y'all are fucked up

[RingusUrDingus]

Uh? For the same reason you'd comment positively, but in the opposite direction? Like I just said?

Again, I ask, is it a "fucked up need" if its a positive comment? And if it is, you need to rephrase your question. If its not, you answered your own question.

Also, I didn't comment on you. Dont make this personal, I can make it personal too and I can do it better than you.

[Goth_cat]

Honestly half us dont even appreciate the ones you think are positive , they're mostly simply creepy unless coming from a guy we like.

[RingusUrDingus]

Which is a very fair point; and true! But that also changes things. if 2 people send the same message, but you find one to be attractive and the other not to be, its not fair or accurate to say the guy or the message was "creepy".

The issue of what is and isn't creepy is now almost complete outside of the control of external factors, and puts it solely on the individual, in that moment. Hell, I've called girls fat to their face, and still ended up to them simply because of how they felt about me in that moment.

Like you said typically, when 6'2 gigachad says "nice tits" and they come out. When 5'3 Bob from Idaho says it and he's blocked.

What bothers you isn't the comments being made or the men, but whether you find them attractive.

[Goth_cat]

Absolute bullshit if a 6 foot man or a 5 foot man who im not going out with makes any comment on my tits im gonna smack him. Women do not appreciate unsolicited comments. We hate them. We just wanna be appreciated by men we're actually with. Ofcourse there are women who like to get appreciated my other men but most of us wanna be left fucking alone.

[RingusUrDingus]

Lol you're arguing with yourself at this point. Have a good one.

[Goth_cat]

Lol you just dont have anymore excuses. Have a good one

[Guy13]

Then unplug from all technology and television and being disgusted should mostly end...

[Goth_cat]

Wow you're so wise

[NamerOfStars]

Because it is- words are just words. What makes you think your actions, or their results, should be accepted without comment?

[Guanfei]

I don't care. If I find a woman pretty and I want to say it, I will. You women aren't refraining from doing so, and often in a much harsher way, so why should we?

[Goth_cat]

Fine make it a competition brother , stay hating

[Anonymous]

Why do so many women think it’s okay to overlook men?

Shit happens. We get to be invisible. You get to be evaluated. At least you get SOME consideration.

[Goth_cat]

You are one sad jerk

[Opinion Owner]

The truth is a sad thing. Or you can go stick your head up your own ass and complain about it being dark. I think we both know which one you prefer. Stinky.

[Goth_cat]

Wow you're definitely a 40 year old man child.

[Gangactivities911]

Like to the girl or to their guy friends? I don’t know any guy that’s done this to a girl but I mean I’m not dead so obviously I’m going to comment on womens looks to my guy friends

[KrakenAttackin]

Because so many women objectify themselves. If you radiate that all you have to offer is sex, than men will just want sex from you.

[Goth_cat]

y'all just dont wanna take responsibility of your own perversion , so you blame it on women. If y'all sleep with women who you dont even respect then i think that says more about you than her.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Goth_cat. Why are you sleeping with men who don't respect you? If you lead with your pussy, that's all men will want from you.

[Goth_cat]

Im even gonna answer this shit. Like i said dudes like you never wanna take responsibility

[KrakenAttackin]

@Goth_cat. Seriously, you chase fuck boys than wonder why you get pumped -dumped.

[Goth_cat]

Sure.

[SiberFox]

Because women never pass comments on a guys' bodies 🙄

[peedy]

And women don't do thd same lol lol give me a break "ok for me but not for thee" is bullshit unequaliity

[Guardian45]

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. "Boy, what are you packing there?"

[FunkyMonkee]

Why do women take them as insults?

[andreasderjuengere]

It's for ensuring ''quality awareness''.

[Wise4myage]

I don't do that, unless I am asked.

[Goth_cat]

Thats fair

[Wise4myage]

Thanks.

[mark000h]

Women do it too.