I read your whole post and it seems like he is not the one for you. He may be the nicest man on earth but not the one you are reaching for, and let's face it, if he starts doing romantic things after you ask him to do them, it would not be coming from his heart.
can say the same about some women like you can say that about some men not all men not all women you just got one that is not romantic doesn't mean all are
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I just said men I never said all there is always an exception to every rule so I don't really refer to all
I am very romantic to a woman that is receptive to it if not don't waste the time and be disappointed all the time which means won't be around very long
you need to communicate that to him that you love him and want him forever, but you would like a little romantic thing not just sex but how about making you a bubble bath some flowers for no reason maybe a sexy massage goes out to a Fancy restaurant
Ok, you just got to get a board game you both can play, word puzzles can be good for two people, but many board games are designed to be played by a group, so you have to choose wisely, or it might turn into a competitive drag, and not something romantic.
Poker is a game where you get cards, and you bet and call or exchange cards based on what you have in your hand, you want high cards like three kings, and a full house is like a 10, a jack, queen , king and ace of all the same house. Card Games are fun, can be competitive, but generally it's based on luck. So they are games that are generally fun.
Cuz you want to be the center of attention 24/7... sometimes it gets exhausting, no one cares about us
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Again I'm just saying being the one to plan a board game would be nice for once I do lovey things all the time and it's not like I'm not tired when I give him a back rub I work 2 job's and take care of goat's/ chicken's along with cleaning so it's not like I'm home all day and want him to get off work and paint my nails
Ok i just read the discription and still dont take it back and think it is most of the time the case with girls complaining about this stuf. But after reading maybe ur situation is different, i dont know the situation. But is your husband very lazy by chance? Does does he spend a lot of time playing video games, watching tiktok, youtube shorts etc? Does he sit on the couch for hours after comming back from work? If so, then this is the reason why. Someone whos seeking these quick pleasures all day and has a dopamine addiction is making lazy, losing his soul, darkens his heart which ultimately would result in numbness in his emotional life.
A real man who isn't seeking these short quick pleasures and who isn't lazy has energy, begins to see brighter and has emotions. When he sees his wife he's content and wants to show her his affection. he's also more happy in life and is motivated
Because we're to tired after working all day, or maybe we are just not in the way you think romance should be Open your mind expand you thinking look at things for outside the box
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He's not any more tired than me we do the same job for the same amount of hours but I also do the cooking cleaning and taking care of the farm animals but I still find time to write him a note or to leave his favorite snacks Infront of his playstation
I said that to myself multiple times as well as to some of my gag friends… I know they have found love. Myself as well… but took time and self reflect and growth
I try to be romantic but it usually does not work out too good.
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Romance novels are like porn for women. It sets unrealistic expectations for men leaving women unhappy because her man can't be like Fabio or what ever the fuck guy is in the books.
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Bottom line, men aren't wired like women, stop expecting that. If you can't, seek out women instead.
Playing a board game is not what I would call romantic lol. But to answer your question, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, nor is it unrealistic.
I think a lot of guys are, but maybe not in the exact fairytale way some women expect. For guys, being romantic may simply be wanting to do things together.
Its hard to be romantic, when you get rejected all the time. Hiw am i supposed to learn this shit
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Im rejected just as much but I still learned how to be romantic and wasn't just rejected in a romantic sense I was rejected as a person at work school family functions I sit alone nobody really gives a fuck I'm there. Read a book watch a movie read shit on Pinterest watch YouTube fuck it's how I learned to give a blow job without actually doing one you can learn anything the fact you don't is a personal choice
Eh knowledge I thought I wouldn't need has come in handy from time to time I'm an out cast and hermit so didn't think I'd need to know how to give a blow job but learned anyway. Also didn't think I'd need to know how to splint a deer leg but terns out I did
Way to generalize all guys as being unromantic when there are a lot of guys who can be romantic when they know their partner's/significant other's love language.
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I read your whole post and it seems like he is not the one for you. He may be the nicest man on earth but not the one you are reaching for, and let's face it, if he starts doing romantic things after you ask him to do them, it would not be coming from his heart.
Those are all good ideas but you may not be speaking his love language and vice versa.
Look up Love Languages by Gary Chapman
That book is very helpful
What kind of men are you talking to? I have come across many romantic men. My ex was romantic as well.
can say the same about some women like you can say that about some men not all men not all women you just got one that is not romantic doesn't mean all are
I just said men I never said all there is always an exception to every rule so I don't really refer to all
I am very romantic to a woman that is receptive to it if not don't waste the time and be disappointed all the time which means won't be around very long
I just wish he would try not like excessive not talking notes in the sky I'm just talking a post-it note saying I love you or making a pillow fort
you need to communicate that to him that you love him and want him forever, but you would like a little romantic thing not just sex but how about making you a bubble bath some flowers for no reason maybe a sexy massage goes out to a Fancy restaurant
Your real question is: why didn't I pick a man who is romantic?
I've dated pretty romantic men in general. My husband is extremely caring and romantic. I could never be with someone who's not like that.
Men are romantic but not all men are romantic. You found a non-romantic man and still married him. You shouldn't complain.
Not married but ok
He wants to play call of duty with his broseph, you need some gay mates, they will romance you all day.
Don't have friends and he doesn't really play with people when he plays video games
Ok, you just got to get a board game you both can play, word puzzles can be good for two people, but many board games are designed to be played by a group, so you have to choose wisely, or it might turn into a competitive drag, and not something romantic.
Um word puzzle isn't my game if you want me pissed off involve word's I'm dyslexic so words frustrate me
What about chess. Dominoes, maybe strip poker.
I kinda know how to play chess kinda I don't remember how to play dominoes have no idea how to play poker we tend to play canta
Chess is a real mental work out. I don't know what canta is.
Poker is a game where you get cards, and you bet and call or exchange cards based on what you have in your hand, you want high cards like three kings, and a full house is like a 10, a jack, queen , king and ace of all the same house. Card Games are fun, can be competitive, but generally it's based on luck. So they are games that are generally fun.
Cuz you want to be the center of attention 24/7... sometimes it gets exhausting, no one cares about us
Again I'm just saying being the one to plan a board game would be nice for once I do lovey things all the time and it's not like I'm not tired when I give him a back rub I work 2 job's and take care of goat's/ chicken's along with cleaning so it's not like I'm home all day and want him to get off work and paint my nails
Ok i just read the discription and still dont take it back and think it is most of the time the case with girls complaining about this stuf. But after reading maybe ur situation is different, i dont know the situation. But is your husband very lazy by chance? Does does he spend a lot of time playing video games, watching tiktok, youtube shorts etc? Does he sit on the couch for hours after comming back from work? If so, then this is the reason why. Someone whos seeking these quick pleasures all day and has a dopamine addiction is making lazy, losing his soul, darkens his heart which ultimately would result in numbness in his emotional life.
A real man who isn't seeking these short quick pleasures and who isn't lazy has energy, begins to see brighter and has emotions. When he sees his wife he's content and wants to show her his affection. he's also more happy in life and is motivated
Because we're to tired after working all day, or maybe we are just not in the way you think romance should be
Open your mind expand you thinking look at things for outside the box
He's not any more tired than me we do the same job for the same amount of hours but I also do the cooking cleaning and taking care of the farm animals but I still find time to write him a note or to leave his favorite snacks Infront of his playstation
Ok, just remember that that's not always the case. Don't lump all men in with one unromantic one.
It’s just not a part of their personalities, I guess.
You can find one who will show those love for you. You can also “train” them.
Not interested…
I’m done with guys.
Why?
I said that to myself multiple times as well as to some of my gag friends… I know they have found love. Myself as well… but took time and self reflect and growth
I try to be romantic but it usually does not work out too good.
Romance novels are like porn for women. It sets unrealistic expectations for men leaving women unhappy because her man can't be like Fabio or what ever the fuck guy is in the books.
Bottom line, men aren't wired like women, stop expecting that. If you can't, seek out women instead.
What is unrealistic about playing a board game
Playing a board game is not what I would call romantic lol. But to answer your question, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, nor is it unrealistic.
I think a lot of guys are, but maybe not in the exact fairytale way some women expect. For guys, being romantic may simply be wanting to do things together.
How?
Its hard to be romantic, when you get rejected all the time. Hiw am i supposed to learn this shit
Im rejected just as much but I still learned how to be romantic and wasn't just rejected in a romantic sense I was rejected as a person at work school family functions I sit alone nobody really gives a fuck I'm there. Read a book watch a movie read shit on Pinterest watch YouTube fuck it's how I learned to give a blow job without actually doing one you can learn anything the fact you don't is a personal choice
So i should learn being romantic in the internet?
Why? I can't even get a coffee date. Whats the point of learning a skill that ill never get to use?
Useless knowledge is worse than not knowing at all
Eh knowledge I thought I wouldn't need has come in handy from time to time I'm an out cast and hermit so didn't think I'd need to know how to give a blow job but learned anyway. Also didn't think I'd need to know how to splint a deer leg but terns out I did
When we are women ridicule you for it. Most women really don't want romance.
So the answer to your question is your gender conditions it out of us.
A lot of men get exhausted with trying to dote on women.
Men just aren’t. Even in the Bible Adam wasn’t romantic and protective to eve and God damned them both.
Way to generalize all guys as being unromantic when there are a lot of guys who can be romantic when they know their partner's/significant other's love language.
So Eve lacked love language from Adam?
Girls don't think whatcI do is romantic. Not my fault
Cl? .