Why is it that I can pull guys but never a boyfriend?

[iroka]

[FilmGuy93]

Everytime a woman asks this question, it is always some combination of the following three things;

1. You aren't meeting men in a place that's conducive to forming relationships (like out partying with your girlfriends).

2. You don't give men anything to connect with about who you are as a person. You don't communicate any hobbies, you don't tell any stories, you don't have a sense of humor. You lead with your looks/sexuality, so that's all men have the chance to connect with.

3. Maybe (and I'm not saying that I personally think this is the case, but I'd be doing you a disservice by not including it) your personality actually just sucks. Maybe you don't bring men a sense of peace in life, so they avoid you.

[UniquelyBasic]

Well if it keeps happening you need to find out what you are doing wrong. The things that get you to be able to pull guys isn't whats going to keep a guy around.

[jshm2]

You're too "easy" . They will probably have to bury you in a Y shaped coffin.

[iroka]

im a virgin. chill

[SiberFox]

Sex will get a mans attention, it won't keep it. Establish the relationship before having sex.

[iroka]

i tried too but basically they end up ghosting when i dont play along. Also im a virgin so i dont plan play along from the start

[SiberFox]

You have to find a like minded man, its not easy and requires effort. Stay true to yourself and what you want. Good luck.

[driven159]

boyfriends are not about sex it is about inner things find the inner things before sex

[iroka]

i tried that and i never offered sex actually

[BarryLiverstone]

What are your boundaries and goals. If you fail to communicate those it can be challenging.

[Anonymous]

Cause you offer only sex

[iroka]

ugh please. im a virgin

[Opinion Owner]

Then what do you mean by “pull” guys?

[Iron_Man]

Keep trying