Im afraid my boyfriend will leave me?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I feel like once he feels better of his depression and dental surgery
And when he gains better self asteem (thanks to me)
He will leave me
Now he says im his support and he values me and that sometimes he doesn't even know how he can make it it it wasn't thanks to me
But its all a bit... i dunno my gut is feeling things
He has me like on a pause, he always sys he will feel better after dental stuff or he will change his job after dental job
He wants to change house style too
Why he wants so ma y changes?
I know his house how it is now
But he want his house to look better... for whom?
I feel like he uses me as his shoulder to cry on
And when he feel better he will leave me
He never gives me presents never
doesn't buy me anything we dont go anywhere
No sex for months, i feel luke his nurse or psychilogist not his girlfriend anymore

[driven159]

he is going through a lot and after things are done, he will feel like a new man and wants his world around him better too he knows and feels guilty putting you through that so I sure he will want you to be in his world too

[ChrisMike1919]

That guy is not your boyfriend. He's just a depressed stone. He doesn't deserve to have you.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well

[IsoUser]

I couldn't agree with you more

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Explaine me this

[IsoUser]

You're obviously disappointed and drained mentally and physically sometimes you need to realize a point that you rescue him or her and just let go, I am just being honest you seriously cannot take yourself down with them and I'm being serious!

[Iron_Man]

Why would he do something like that that’s not right be positive

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont know
IM PARANOID.
I feel used

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I want more attention from him and spend more time
He is never there for me
Im the one always there for him

[Iron_Man]

Talking is key have a deep serious conversation with him

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How to even start?
Know what? Im paranoid... will you leave me?

[Iron_Man]

If this is a serious problem for you maybe you should MoveOn

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dunno what to do

[Iron_Man]

Just have a serious conversation just go for it

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont feel loved

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you guys try Counseling

[Zolly99999]

I think you are going to be fine.. he just went through a lot

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

So? i mean

[Zolly99999]

I don't think he is going to leave you

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why not

[Zolly99999]

I just get a gut feeling from your description..

[Kim7mik]

It maybe, why you afraid?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I just explained

[Kim7mik]

Do you love him

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont know
I like him
He turns me on
I can't totally love him because i know he doesn't love me
Once i told him
Im in love with yiu
His answer:no, baby. dont fall in love with me

[Kim7mik]

Ok follow me please