He thinks I'm shy, but actually I am afraid that he think that I am weird, so I shut up..
Past the initial 'getting to know you' phase... are you willing to LIVE a false 'persona' long-term?
One person's 'weird' is another person's 'unique' or 'quirky'---
"Using a chicken feather in intimacy is 'sensuous'; ... using the WHOLE LIVE chicken is 'kinky' "
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I have learned no to worry about be perceived weird. For me, I simply speak and see if it ebb and flows. I'll never know if I do not try and i do not want to sit around and wonder what may or may not been.
Afraid of thinking you're weird is what a shy person would say! Take it easy, start small. He's your boyfriend so the chance he'll be weirded out is relatively small, allow him to get to know you one step at a time.
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You can do that by asking him to not judge you and say you just wanna share things. What topics are you wanting to explore with him?
push up bra, and you won't need to.
Bring issues up gradually.
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