What do I do if people find me annoying all my life?

[8Tj5n4iwh]

Im an ESFP girl. People ddnt like me and dont. Im sweet happy cheerful goofy but i developed terrible crippling social anxiety and hide my personlity since a long time now.

I was shamed for who i am since i was a kid and i was bullied for my body and face too.. All of the abuse just compounded. I hated myself and hid myself from myself for ages.

Now i realize im an esfp this whole time and people think sweet bubbly soft tender caring affectionate gentle fun loving exciting people loving girls like me are annoying

I tried to be an intj for the longest and hide everything about me. I even pretended to be a book reader. In reality i can't sit still and read books unless its like one of my last options of things to do in a given situation.

People think im trolling even irl a lot but im just kinda ditzy airheaded and have blonde moments all the time. but i am smiley and like fun and am always giggling!!!

[SueShe]

Pardon my ignorance but what are "ESFP" and "intj"?

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Thanks for your understanding.

[Guy13]

Have you ever set down with a counselor and worked through this concern.

[Guy13]

Sometimes counselors will give you formal personality tests which can help you understand yourself in an unbiased way. A before people understanding so that you can better interpret their reactions to you. I don’t know…but these tests I do know about. And there’s more than one that they can give you. I hope things improve for you…

[Shr8rh5i]

What tests

[Iron_Man]

Go over What you’re doing that annoys people and fix it

[Iron_Man]

I have no idea what you’re trying to say Im an ESFP

[Avicenna]

Be the person you want to he and surround yourself with people eho are compatible with you