I've felt that way but I have it figured out. I'd be with one woman for so long and get used to how she acts that I'd start to feel like all women will act like her... the sudden change once with a new woman is kinda like a culture shock on a mini scale... if that makes sense.
I distinctly remember my new girl saying she was sleepy, and I was not... like not at all. I sort of 'put it out there' that I'll just play some video games. I was pleasantly surprised by her saying she doesn't care, play some video games. The woman before her would've given me a bunch of shit and demanded I 'cuddle' just because she's sleepy. Looking back on this it all kind of seems stupid, but at the time I had grown to think all women are extreme attention whores, and me doing anything on my own hurts their feelings because they're not getting the attention.
It was a shock... Like I was literally thinking the chick didn't like me because chicks are supposed to constantly demand constant attention (so I thought at the time). I was wrong, and she liked me... it just turns out some women don't mind a guy playing some video games or spending an hour with his weights while listening to music. I felt like a pig in shit because I had gotten so used to not even being able to go poo poo without a female all up in my business as if I'm going to be on the phone talking to another girl.
Yes. I used to go to one business in the course of my job. I often dealt with a particular woman. She was short and cute, but wore conservative "work attire". She bought complete outfits that consisted of skirt, blouse, jacket, and accessories. They did not telegraph sexiness. And she was all business in the course of her job.
I asked her out one day and she accepted.
We went to dinner and got along really well. She was delightful.
Long story short, after a few dates, she invited me into her rented house one evening.
Holy shit! The things she did to me were beyond ecstasy. And I would never have guessed how gorgeous she was beneath her work costumes.
We both had our own places but wound up living together for over a year.
She turned out to be hypersexual and orgasmic. Who would have guessed, given her conservative appearance? We had the greatest time together. We went places and did things, went on some vacations, and really enjoyed each other's company. I loved everything about her and she loved me. And the sex was over the top.
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Yes as it is common if one prefers a higher guarded and standard woman. Once we can hop those distrust hurdles and reactions therein, she’s wide open and free. She really has not been there before…or rarely as guys are sometimes difficult to her.
Women have their tendencies. That you can depend on. But beyond that all women are unpredictable. They're like animals. You can domesticate them. But realize they're still animal always capable of biting you at any time. 🤣
No I haven’t usually they are what they are and you can figure them out pretty quickly
Not at the beginning. The real education starts about 30 years LATER!!!
so you're not a friendly person
nice to know
I didn't realize he was horny even though he held back
My ex used to call me kind
maybe you are an introvert
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