Guys, Why are men complete jerks to a woman they don't find attractive? Why can't they still be nice and say I prefer without disrespecting her?

[Rebecka33]

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I mean I've had to many men tell me I deserved to die or that I didn't deserve respectsimply becasue I ma strawberry blonde why?

[Guy13]

This is odd as none of my friends woukd behave in such a discourteous manner. Perhaps, a change of venue will be beneficial. Find better guys at another location? I’ve never known anyone to react that way. We’re not all like that 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Rebecka33]

MEn at gorcery stores have said it to me men on here have said it to me. Its many t imes random strangers.

[Rebecka33]

one huy had a pretty girlfriend but he stil turned around with her and was acomplete jerk to me why?

[Guy13]

It escapes me and sorry in behalf of decent guys.

[Rebecka33]

THanks for your opinion I aprreciate i guess while many owmen are complete jerkettes many men can be complete jerks and beyond. You are not one and there are afew that aren't and I sould ignore the ones that are.

[Guy13]

Your very kind and thanks. Ignore them 👍👍

[Wubs3000]

Strawberry blonde is the best blonde whats up with them and hating nice colors
I don't know why though people are dicks. There are a lot of women that hate all men too this world is kinda fucked

[Rebecka33]

Wel if 8 had kids with a blond eguy al our kids would be platinum blondes lol

[Rebecka33]

Theyde be very fair skinned blue eyes and totally white blonde hair non ash lol

[Rebecka33]

I'm lighter then a dirty and golden blonde yes a tad darker then a platinum al the way lol

[Stevepro68]

Sounds like theses would be assholes to everyone. Why say that to anyone ever! Look for the guys who are nice to the little old ladies clearly they are able to be nice to someone they don't find attractive.

[fatmucho]

For me, im not really a jerk, I just keep a convo short, because i dont want them to start liking me

[Rebecka33]

Oh ita a jerk when they're telling me they don't even want to acknowledge my existence or care if I die.

[fatmucho]

Really? Thats not right.

[Rebecka33]

Are you 14 up not talking g little boys saying g this I. Talking 50 yr old men

[fatmucho]

Not all men r like that, the ones like that, theyre prob mean to everyone whos not there friend

[Rebecka33]

Or maybe they're 30 but look old.

[Rebecka33]

I notice dyou said for you I apologize yes for you wha though said isn't a jerk talking g about the scenario I mentioned with men that are mid age and should no better

[Rebecka33]

That's true lol your right they probably just mean in general.

[nawtee_me]

I like strawberries and won’t hold the blonde part against you either…. lol. I think it is sexy myself….

[Rebecka33]

Thanks, lol i don't trust most men and women however there are a few i can trust when i get to know them. It would be nonsense for me to think that al men prefer brunettes like saying that al girls only prefer blonde men.

[nawtee_me]

The way I see it, you are a rarity. You are not something often found. For some they do not know what they are looking at. Others see a prize to be had to show off. And a few appreciate your beauty for what it is….

[Rebecka33]

Yes its like marilyn menroe many men liked her because she was famous. Take the fame away and maybe only half the men woymuldve notices her and other girls because of jealousy would've been ble to bring her down even more. Cause of her dad issues she might be had even more depression. I would've told her to be strong and ignore them and fight for self and own beauty uniquely I should give myself the same advice.

[nawtee_me]

Take your own advice….

[Rebecka33]

Yes lol Def best choice

[Jerre]

I would never disrespect a woman, whether she was attractive or not. Perhaps you associate with the wrong crowd.

[Rebecka33]

THey are men on here that also said it theyre complete stangers?

[Jerre]

They are fucking assholes

[Rebecka33]

Its most of the time strangers that say it or people who dont know me personally

[Rebecka33]

I would never say that to them but htey have no problem sayign it t ome thats why i dont understand it and theri girlfireends just laught like they dont eve ncare it hurts me. but ya it does.

[Rebecka33]

Because when its a complete stranger and theyre doing it out loud i nfront of other people it crosses the line

[Rebecka33]

HOweve on chat theyl say it thatthis to me im not gona acknoeldge toy becaue i dont like you becuase i jsut dont so every other girl looks liek they deserve to live you dont so you can die and id be happy

[Rebecka33]

Thanks for your information Iguees many girsl are jerkettes but yes many men are beyond jerks as well

[Jerre]

Perhaps a little sex would help calm you

[Smartman5]

because they don't know how to treat women. They don't love you but I love you very much. just talk to me

[Guardian45]

You care TOO MUCH about what idiots say. DROP those LOSERS!

[Guardian45]

I promise you, 90% of guys AREN'T those Aholes.

[Rebecka33]

your right i worry to much about what the average goes think lol most of those beyond the average goe look wouldn't do this.

[Zolly99999]

Please know not all men are like this.

[Rebecka33]

your right only t he average joes lol i shouldn't worry about them lol

[Zolly99999]

The guys that insult you or try and hurt your feelings are not "average Joe's " they are losers and less then men.

[Rebecka33]

wel msot of hte mare wit htheir girlfirends whe ntey do it i dont trust most women either.

[icetome]

what

I think you are lying