Guys, What would you as a guy do if you were seeing someone but not serious and they said they were asked out and are considering saying yes?

[Anonymous]

But you're not seeing them seriously because you have a hang up but you have strong feelings for them and deep down would be hurt if they see someone else because you thought they had feelings also.

[Guy13]

If you, liked me mostly-BUT... another guy came along and you tested it out THEN I would be gone BECAUSE I love hard... I'm one of those. :-) I hope I am translating your question correctly?

[Asker]

Pretty much except he isn't saying how he feels and isn't showing itv and he's been this way due to his own hangups but when tested seems to be jealous if he feels another guy is trying

[Guy13]

Noncommittal... Sad people have to learn the hard way. I would break totally because I am all-in/love hard type. I do not think there is "Rule Book" that we are missing. It sounds like you have a legitimate complaint. I would NOT want to be you though. Bottom line, People are Messy !!!

[Asker]

Thank you. Seems I'm damned if I do or don't

[Guy13]

Yep... so much of life falls under: "It is what it is"

[MrCommodore]

I would end it with her and let her date the new, I wouldn't go back to her after that.