Do introverted men genuinely need space or are they just banging their side chick like everyone else?

[DermalPunch]

Is there ever any truth to it?

[Loveisgirthy]

Oh I'd say I'd need someone understanding and trusting of needed space but the anxiety over it being used as an excuse to cheat makes complete sense too. Look for someone who's just as worried you'd be cheating, is my advice. If the trust isn't there then I'd rather just break it up if I couldn't convince her with all my efforts.

[DermalPunch]

I get it. The ensuing break up only making her think she was right all along surely. Hahaha.

[Loveisgirthy]

I mean yeah that's true it's insane lol understandable to a degree, but still. Thanks for the mho!

[msc545]

Space, please.

[DermalPunch]

Oh no doubt.

[Jamie05rhs]

We genuinely need space.
But sometimes it can be confusing if you're a woman dealing with those of us like myself who are still free agents. Because we're still going to talk to girls in our downtime. It takes zero effort. Relationships are what takes effort.
So if you're talking to a guy and you haven't signed him to your team yet and he has no "contract", just be aware that he's still going to be courting other teams. Because, at the end of the day, even though he may have a favorite team, he just wants a starting position SOMEwhere.

[Lionman95]

As an introvert guy myself I would say I really need space from women and other men from time to time because I´m kind of an overthinker. Since I´m less talking about experiences with people I need other ways to comprehend my thoughts and emotions and I therefore use time I spend alone to really get where I want to be.

[Oigit]

In general I'm a loaner and tend to spend a lot of time off on my own and doing my own thing. For a few reasons I can have issues being around people for a extended amount of time can present some issues for me. So a woman I'm involved with thinking I had a side chick would be funny as hell. Simply because she would know about my weird quarks. So how the hell could I even managed having a side chick on top of being with her?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Guys as it is, are rediculed on an average if they open up even a bit of their true self. Hence they are always a bit more closed than girls.

And introverted are guaranteed to be closed up even more. Hence they need their own space, a noticable space.

As for their attitude towards girls, its subjective. I am more approaching, I am a really good listener as it is mainly what most people need. They need to be heard. And probably, other things you know till now.

[ElementoP]

I like to be alone sometimes, but I've never asked my sweet darling of a girl to give me space. That would hurt her feelings. And I don't have a side chick, quit dating assholes

[DermalPunch]

It was just to make the question interesting. Thanks for the advice.

[Juxtapose]

Most men don't have side chicks, you're thinking of the top percentage of dudes who have such a large plethora of options that they can have a side chick like it's nothing.

[Juxtapose]

And yes introverts need space. You wouldn't hesitate to give a woman space would you? Don't be a hypocrite.

[DermalPunch]

I wouldn't trust any gender that says it. No hypocrisy here!

[Juxtapose]

Well I can tell you as an autistic person I definitely need my alone time. The presence of other people is stifling to a certain degree, can I scratch my balls freely in front of others? Can I randomly rant to myself or make strange noises just because I feel like it? Can I sing and dance without being made fun of?

Solitude has a lot of peace and room for self growth within it.

[DermalPunch]

I am an extrovert absolutely but I know how wonderful solitude is. But, too much isn't good for me. I need people to distract me from my brain that never sleeps. It can get pretty crazy in there. 🤪

[keira_rsa]

As a introvert I'd say they really need space
I need space most of the time
But it also depends on the situation, like are you dating or something else?

[DermalPunch]

We're in a committed relationship.

[h3llfireclub]

Not a man, but I do genuinely need space sometimes. Just to decompress, gain some energy back after socialising.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I felt so drained after spending energetic days with my friends for our projects in our college.
The more energetic the day was, the more daining I felt when being alone.
Reading, Netflix or Spotify or even sleeping gave me back my energy.

[Wubs3000]

I don't get why people think everyone is cheating. It's not the case and you need to build trust with your partner to have a fulfilling relationship

[Plinko]

Introverted men don't have a side piece.
They don't like shit, they don't go outside.
They like being left alone, but don't like BEING alone.

[NathanDavis]

this is just a whole new level of insecurity... lol

[Astarlessnightsky]

Yes, Introverts in general do need time alone or time for themselves.

[MysticDevice]

Yes, needing space is a real thing. Introvert/extrovert aside, In a relationship time apart is as important as time together

[OddBeMe]

Of course there can be introverted womanizers. But I’d go out on a limb and say there's less chance as we like our alone time. And relationships are draining.

[Cubus]

Yes. I am introverted, and after spending time with someone for longer, I need to be alone for some time.

[Shamalien]

I’d say more men need space than men bang side chicks. First of all, men aren’t women, a good 70% of men struggle to find one chick let alone two, and of the other 30%, a good half are solid people who wouldn’t do that

[Chazmatazz269]

Is there any truth to introversion? You must be trolling.

[legalboxers]

-blinks-

Im not boinking anyone. I like my space

[crmoore]

If "everyone else" is banging their side chick in your life, consider finding a new social circle.

[DermalPunch]

Good Lord, it was to make the question interesting. That's all I hear everybody saying on G@G. I don't know people with sode chicks.

[Anonymous]

If you think about that a bit your question answers itself.

[Ironic_Method]

... of course introverted people need space.

[Andres77]

Bang and cuddle and hang out for a bit...