5 years together, engaged for 3 years. Help me?

[Anonymous]

Maybe I'm being insecure but this has been bothering me. I haven't asked him yet. So recently I posted a picture of me and him on Facebook. The picture was on his timeline for about a month. Recently I've got a notification that re untagged himself from the pic and hid it from his timeline. Not only that. I also noticed he changed his relationship privacy from only friends can view to only close friends. He is a public speaking, a coach and he travels quite frequently. guys please help me. Am I being insecure or too sensitive about it?

[LazerBean]

Just break it off. If he wanted to be married to you, he would be by now. His actions only further prove that.

[Asker]

Its a mutual agreement that we won't get married but only engaged.

[LazerBean]

Yeah I bet he loved that idea.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s trying to keep his private life private but if it bothers you it won’t hurt to ask him. Also, why are you engaged for such a long time?

[Asker]

We agreed not to get married. We just wanted to get engaged.

[Asker]

He's that type of person get offensive easily and feel like I'm accusing him if I asked

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay, I think you’re just gonna have to ask gently and make sure you word your question without sounding accusatory. My boyfriend is the same way so I know what you mean lol

[spartan55]

You've been engaged three years and you are worried about some stupid social media bullshit? I'd say there are more important issues.

[Asker]

We agreed to not get married and just get engaged.

[spartan55]

Huh? What's the point of that?

[lollypop2003]

was that something you wanted or something he talked you into?

[Anonymous]

I wonder if there’s another little woman in the pic?

[Asker]

I'm not quite sure if I understand

[Opinion Owner]

Is he seeing someone else on the side?

[Asker]

Not that I'm aware of

[Opinion Owner]

Just from what you’ve written I feel there is.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s definitely a red flag