I have a guy friend that I've known for a month. We are both heterosexual and find each other attractive, however I have set boundaries for our friendship and he has accepted it. Today he asked me If I would cuddle him sometimes and I told him no because that's not what two hetero friends do. He insisted that it's strictly cuddles. Is it ok to cuddle the opposite sex as friends or is he trying to get into my pants?

Yes it's a PC way of saying he wants to get into your pants

If you had a boyfriend, do you think you'd be ok with him cuddling another female?

I think it's not.. I wish my neighbor cuddle me.. Hahaha.. Waiting for that day.. Rest I wil do. 😉

I cuddle with friends, but they're usually other women

So did you do this? Was his boner poking you the whole time?

It kinda is, especially if you're in a relationship. But, maybe he genuinely just wants general cuddles, I don't know him.

Yes. I cuddle with everyone I know. 🤗

Cuddling almost always will lead to sex.

He likes you. Thinks he’ll convince you.

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Yes it's a PC way of saying he wants to get into your pants

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If you had a boyfriend, do you think you'd be ok with him cuddling another female?

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I think it's not.. I wish my neighbor cuddle me.. Hahaha.. Waiting for that day.. Rest I wil do. 😉

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I cuddle with friends, but they're usually other women

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So did you do this? Was his boner poking you the whole time?

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Anonymous
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It kinda is, especially if you're in a relationship. But, maybe he genuinely just wants general cuddles, I don't know him.

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- Guardian45
  
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  And therein is the problem: to cuddle or not to cuddle?
  
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Yes. I cuddle with everyone I know. 🤗

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- Guardian45
  
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  Are you a cuddler?
  
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Cuddling almost always will lead to sex.

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- Guardian45
  
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  Mmmmaybe
  
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He likes you. Thinks he’ll convince you.

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why?
  
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- dustybiker
  
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  @Guardian45 We only want to touch people we like. I grew up with all men. Close friends/brothers by choice. Never cuddled. It would be like male friends cuddling. It’s just unusual. Even if it’s subconscious the man likes her.
  
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- Aakash_Hangargi
  
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  She's already convinced she wants someone to just acknowledge she will cuddle 😆
  
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- Aakash_Hangargi
  
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  Not only man lol she likes him as well
  
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- dustybiker
  
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  @Aakash_Hangargi Truth
  
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SandyBeaches Follow
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You're playing with fire.

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I don't have friends why are you asking me this?🤬🤬🤬

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He must think you are stupid.

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katestar Follow
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No. Not at all. Actually.

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- Guardian45
  
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  Why not?
  
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- katestar
  
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  I'd love to go on a date with my guy friend. Like a friend date.
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  What would you do?
  
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- katestar
  
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  I don't know. Before we go on a date. I ask out my guy friend.
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  You did or you would?
  
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- katestar
  
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  I would like to date my guy friend. If he understood how he feels about me.
  
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He is testing the boundaries.

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That just depends are you tryna smash

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Depending on the situation

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- Guardian45
  
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  EXACTLY!!!
  
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I mean I dont think so

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No it’s totally ok

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I don't think you know what "heterosexual" means.

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Not if there is no feeling up on a girl

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Of course not. In fact, it should be normalized.

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Some girls like this while others do not

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These questions are just dumb

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its dangerous... you might get aroused

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He definitely was trying to get in your pants

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I think it’s okay

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Such idiocy.

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foreverams Follow
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Not at all.

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In my opinion no

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if the cuddling leads to sex yes

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Not okay at all.

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Yes.

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Not normal

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