I cuddle with my friends. But if you are not comfortable and feel that is crossing your boundaries then don't be afraid to stick to your rules! It definitely depends on each individual relationship.
It can be. But that's entirely up to you. I cuddle with select male friends that I'm comfortable with. My boyfriend knows them all and I make sure he's OK with it.
I woul say yes as long it´s consensual. If you´re not comfortable he has to accept that. I don´t think that it´s wrong for him to ask that it just gets wrong if he can´t accept your answer.
He wants you. that is totally inappropriate for friends. If one of you were in a relationship with someone and did that it would be considered cheating.
I couldn't if just friends, touch / scent is VERY important & intiment to me, 1k% more so if cuddling. I'd risk being intoxicated & that's a boundary I won't cross with just a friend. That doesn't mean all men are like that.
Of course it's inappropriate. Why on Earth would you EVER think that you had set boundaries in your "friendship" when you're also doing things like cuddling?
If the two variables remain friends, I wouldn’t say it’s inappropriate, it’s just wacky. That’s basically the realistic version of anime girls saying “I kissed you and effed your brains out, but JUST as FRIENDS”
I mean it’s unusual. I do it with other girls but that’s a common and normal thing for girls. Herero or not, girls do friendly cuddles. But that’s not so much of a thing that guys do with other guys, or girls unless he’s gay or maybe if she is lol
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I cuddle with my friends. But if you are not comfortable and feel that is crossing your boundaries then don't be afraid to stick to your rules! It definitely depends on each individual relationship.
It can be. But that's entirely up to you. I cuddle with select male friends that I'm comfortable with. My boyfriend knows them all and I make sure he's OK with it.
I woul say yes as long it´s consensual. If you´re not comfortable he has to accept that. I don´t think that it´s wrong for him to ask that it just gets wrong if he can´t accept your answer.
He wants you. that is totally inappropriate for friends. If one of you were in a relationship with someone and did that it would be considered cheating.
So you know, he's playing the long game, eroding those boundaries slowly away with every episode of whatever show you're binge watching together.
I couldn't if just friends, touch / scent is VERY important & intiment to me, 1k% more so if cuddling. I'd risk being intoxicated & that's a boundary I won't cross with just a friend. That doesn't mean all men are like that.
Nope. Quick hugs with friends when parting is normal but cuddles is something I only do with a boyfriend.
Of course it's inappropriate. Why on Earth would you EVER think that you had set boundaries in your "friendship" when you're also doing things like cuddling?
Yes it’s inappropriate but I do it anyways. I have a bisexual buddy that likes to cuddle with me so I cuddle with him
Definitely trying to make a move. As you said, 2 heterosexual, opposite gender people do not cuddle if they're strictly platonic.
Although, it's uncommon, I disagree.
If the two variables remain friends, I wouldn’t say it’s inappropriate, it’s just wacky. That’s basically the realistic version of anime girls saying “I kissed you and effed your brains out, but JUST as FRIENDS”
I mean it’s unusual. I do it with other girls but that’s a common and normal thing for girls. Herero or not, girls do friendly cuddles. But that’s not so much of a thing that guys do with other guys, or girls unless he’s gay or maybe if she is lol
It IS possible to be friends and cuddle, but it takes a particular bond & trust between you, akin to sibling or parent/child feelings.
Do you have such a bond? If not, then I wouldn't recommend it.
Uhm... you will end up fucking
Cuddles are for couples. I have friends who i appreciate and are like brothers to me, but id never cuddle them. Its not natural.
Thats only for a male i find attractive as potential sex partner
I think it depends on the friendship dynamic.
I agree 100%
It's ok to do, but a month of being friends? I would question the motives.
y'all can but don't forget what his intentions might be
Honestly just depends on the parties involved. It can definitely be crossing the line if everyone involved aren't on the same page.
Yeah. I dont do this. Sounds like a guy trying to get laid.
Seems odd to me. I would say he hasn't quite accepted the friendship as much as you