Yeah I did, my boyfriend knows about him and he's cool with it. And it originally was just a 'hanging out and playing video games' situation since he is the only close friend I actually have irl, the only person I can hang out with face to face since me and my boyfriend are LDR. The cuddling just randomly came up as we were scheduling the hang out
Oh and as long as one person has a partner we can't, I dont want that drama of misunderstandings.
We both thought it would be nice to cuddle a bit. And he first brought it up
You find him attractive? He's straight? He's going to try it on with you at some point. Next time cuddling and kissing. Time after that... Maybe break up with your ldr boyfriend and get with this guy.
My ldr boyfriend is more my type than he is tbh, so I don't feel that sort of attraction to him. And yes he's straight, and he did tell me that he had a female friend who he just used to cuddle with, but she temporarily moved out of the country
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And when he puts his arm around you, it will just naturally gravitate to your boob.
Okay but that’s natural so he’ll have to turn around. If we’re friends I accept him as a human too lol
It would also turn a guy on if he thought she was cute.
@Wise4myage I know I’m speaking from experience
Oh yeah? lol. It would be awkward too.
True."if the idea of being his girlfriend sounds ok to her, she wouldn't need to overthink."But in first place this girl is cheaky... i smell that in an air 😂just by reading her comments.. she will definally enjoy such interaction with that guy.AND this boy oh he,'s GOT very lucky haha😁I think he is celebrating this whole idea alrerady by now, while we sitting on this app talking about it..😂He will definatelly forget about 'gaming'! part once he gets to her house. Because I would.. lolOnly question! if is she's home alone in that time.This whole topic feeds imagination so much😅
@Ceslovas I wouldn't forget about the gaming part, do you have any idea how difficult it is to find a girlfriend who loves video games? Lucky indeed.
But my thing is not gaming.#hiking#long nature walks
@Ceslovas Mine is difficult video games, science, drawing, animating, composing, and watching sci-fi, fantasy, and also anime/cartoons.
Well, he isn't hiding the fact that he is attracted to me, but he only subtly mentioned it. He has never said anything totally sexual to me, never hinted at ever wanting to do anything other than cuddle
Ok well there you go. Have you ever felt his boner poking into you while cuddling? That would be awkward for 'just friends'.
If it happens, it happens. He's probably just gonna brush it off
I think the decision was already made in your mind so why bother ask..;D have a nice one.I wish i think i need to consider thinking about having cuddle partner aswell🤔lolIf he is as innocent as i think, in his mind maybe it's okay...You know this your story brought me a memory. Innocent but beautiful one.. this passion in her eys😏I will never be able to forget her eyes... the way she smilesYea... he can be your first without having a sex, if u never had such intimacy before.I was so silly.. silly boy 1night while we were taking shower i told my ex girlfriend that she reminds me of that girl😂wtf why would i do that😅.. but anyways it was big drama there, I don't know why she was so upset😂just by story itself🤔Think about your future husband... don't let him go through same what ex girlfriend had to go through...Don't let him think there was another guy better than him in your mind. It screws love he has for you.Get close to only guy u want form relationship in your mind.
Lol yes, he actually is pretty innocent. And I'm not thinking of our hang out as anything sexual, just two friends hanging out together. Pretty sure he thinks the same. And wow, that's a story lol. That shower took a bad turn 😂The thing is, my boyfriend is pretty open about stuff like that. He hangs out with other girls too and I'm cool with it. Plus, we're LDR. But he knows he's the only one I want, the only one I ever wanna be with, and that he's the best
These days, the business world is filled with cliché that we can separate bussines from personal life.But when it comes down to it, we’re not robots and Therein lies the issue.I know u said Feelings are discouraged and it sounds so innocent 'just cuddling awww🙄😅... i bet some guys from here even dreams of a girl like you😅I am also under impression that you do self-regulate well and.. may have the skills to effectively deal with feelings once they arise.But still... There is a chance you start having feelings for that guy...Instead of holding on to a traditional belief u holding onto..'open relationship'type of thinking and it feels like u trully believe it's gonna work for you in your relationship.And u are not familiar with inadequate feeling of jealousy... it feels like at some point in your life , there is a chance u become single or happily married 'swinger' 😅😊there u don't give a fukk about fMily values or having kids.🙂oh man.. i typed here so much😅
Haha yeah, but honestly, me and the guy are pretty innocently physical, like a lot of hugs. And I really don't feel romantically or sexually attracted to him. He's just a pretty great friend who is up for some cuddles even though it might sound weird. It's not weird to me or him. In fact, we're totally fine with it. And my boyfriend, I love him more than anything and I can't imagine me loving another guy the way that I love him
:) This forum is a nice place to open up and chatSometimes that's all we need when feel lonelyI bet this cuddling stuff is to do with missing him (your boyfriend) You are mising him badlyIt's very strange world we live nowOne girl from Brazil that i made emotional (bond) connection withEven not with, even she said she makes sex with someone else she thinks of me...She just said, i want to meet my physical needs, just like that.We never met before but she told once... there is nothing more beautiful but tonfind someone that understands your mind. She was refering this to me. And i do agree with her.Ditance do not exist. Feelings the only real thing that has no border. If u love him it will deffinatelly make sense.Just be careful... on a feeling level romantically we can connect to not just one person.And ur love for him can fade away and relationship can possibly not endure this change in your mind or his mind.(Because as u said he is also dTing/seeing other pp aswell)And i am sorry for talking this so much.
*especially for a Man.
It's about value realization. I would personally not take that risk...
Yeah I understand. And yeah, I really do miss my boyfriend and I guess I'm missing some physical affection as well, and the guy friend is the only one I can actually do that with because he understands the whole long distance thing is hard. I guess he just wants to be there for me just as I am there for him. He doesn't think of having any romantic relationship with me, he's looking for his own girl he'll eventually be able to get sexual with and knows I'm off limits for anything sexual
go see him... it's beautiful the way u talk about him-you are good girl:)I wish i don't need to go through same long distance relationahip thing like you do coz close physicall affection is very very important to me tooIt must be painfull to you.. he must be older that he don't make time for you (busy schedule)or different time zone so u can't video call him anytime you want:)
Thank you 😊 I really do want to go and see him, and I will the very second I see an opportunity. And yeah, it's hard. Physical contact and affection is important in relationships, so it's too bad me and him can't have that atm. And yeah he is older than me, usually busy with work. And we actually video call daily. Time zones aren't too bad because it's evening here when he wakes up so we have plenty of time to call and text. He also always makes sure to text me during his work breaks which I think is very sweet of him
But why u put this 'strange' image as your profile picture. How does it make you feel?
Coz u seem very pleasant lady and definatelly not that ugly like in this picture... hate that picture makes me feel uncomfortable I don't know why🤔 😅
Haha oh my personality doesn't match my style lol. And that picture is of a band member
U must be jokinnnng;D
Oh i see...😅i thought u said one of band member look like that cteature in a picture
Yeah lol. It's a guy called Joey Jordison
Yeah I have established with him, both him and I know that cuddling is all we're gonna do
He's a pretty good friend. Besides, he knows I'm taken so all we want is just a nice chill night
ahaha yeah. calling bullshit.
Lol why's that?
Well, friends sometimes need a bit of cuddles too, as long as you establish boundaries
What boundaries? No cuddling is a boundary for a friend. I didn't want to say this but what if you see he has a boner?
You can totally cuddle without having sex. And if he does get a boner, he's probably not even gonna mention it
Cuddling is a form of being intimate too. I don't understand why you would do this and call him a friend. Then at least call him your boyfriend. And if you had a boyfriend, do you think he will not get jealous if you cuddle with other guy?
My boyfriend knows about him and he's cool with it. And I guess cuddling can be non sexual too, it's just a form of closeness. I know a bunch of people who do cuddle with their friends on a regular basis, nothing sexual
Hah no worries, I will. But honestly, I think cuddling with friends is just something you do to get closer as friends, both literally and figuratively. And just if someone is in need of affection, because everyone needs a bit of cuddling in their life
".. Romantic curiosity there" - well said!
Cuddleship in hopes of boneship.
Clothed obviously lol
@Beelzie what fun is that though.. lol
Lol it can still be fun
@Beelzie bah.. lol
jimmy, you're 61. get outta here.