Do you agree that older guys are sexier?

Question

I just find them so attractive and I don't know why.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

I'm not attracted personally, but I think older and younger guys just have different types of sexy. Like a younger guy is more brash, bold, but also "young, dumb and full of cum." and I think people in general look better with less wrinkles and more firm, smooth, skin.

But older guys have more of a deep confidence that doesn't need to scream out, a simple surety with the world, "we've seen this before". I think confidence is a huge turn on for most people, and this is probably what attracts.

Do you agree that older guys are sexier?

You say "I just find them so attractive and I don't know why.", but there has to be something that is drawing you. Maybe it's an idea of stability or comfort, or is there a certain look you like, like the salt-n-pepper beard?

bean2k21 · Accepted Answer

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a young couple out in public, and looked twice at a really beautiful young lady. Then thought to myself, gee I wish I were that age again.

Then I look at her boyfriend, and I think, god he looks like a total piece of shit. Then, I feel really bad for her.

But, what can you do? Creep on youngers all the time so they get treated well?

Just learn to love older guy stuff, I guess. It's been a few years since I've been with a younger. She was so mistreated and I miss her so much.

hhadeshatesme · Accepted Answer

No. If you would have asked me a year ago I would have agreed. I use to like guys a lot older and maybe even put them on a pedestal a bit but being on gag made that die out fairly quickly, seeing the questions and mytakes asked/made by the average older guy made me realize just how dumb most of them remain. I thought men got better with age. I liked older guys cause I made the assumption that for most men their age automatically meant maturity, wisdom, intelligence, stability, less mind games, and experienced in the sack. Only a small % of men actually have all the boxes checked, most older guys are just as dense as the ones my own age just less attractive.

bennies_819 · Accepted Answer

I kinda a agree some of them are more mature than the young guys I dated in my past. people my age don't even know what a TRUE relationship is or even at all. i was dating a 23 year old guy (we wasn't exclusive just getting to know each other) he was very immature, narcissistic, poor communication skills I have ever heard and more. i hate guys that try to peer pressure women to do things they don't wanna do it's not cute nor attractive... I heard most guys I have talked to sound like they are children and can't understand the word "no". I have faith that my guy is coming just waiting on God to send me him.

Screenwriter · Answer

You maybe admire your dad? You're 19. An older guy is 35!

And, if you compare someone 35 to the crop of 21 year olds who you might be hanging around with, someone THAT age IS attractive: nice job, nice car, a brain in their upper head, manners, listens to YOU instead of rattling on about themselves, relaxed, confident. Those qualities are lacking in very young men who don't know much and are trying to impress you that they DO and fail miserably.

Experience, in this case, is a feather in the cap.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well since I'm an older guy I can only speak for myself but yeah I like me LOL I think older guys are just more together I know I'm 100 times better than I was when I was younger and when I was 15 and 1/2 16 years old I was seeing this 47-year-old lady and now that I'm my age now women my age sometimes are very boring because they just don't want to do anything I'd like to be happy energetic and go I still feel like I'm 25 so and nowadays if I didn't know how to treat a woman back then I definitely do now I'm pretty sure I did but and a lot of times younger women are just as smart and wise as older women it's amazing how women have changed girls have changed I love it I even like this question

BlueScorpio · Answer

No, most of are not that sexy. I see older men at my job everyday and they often remind me of someone's dad or grandpa. The only exception would be if he takes care of himself and is aging gracefully. But for the ones part I've never been into older men, always my age or maybe 1 to 2 years older.

TransAm85 · Answer

I was 25 and met my now husband who was 33 at the time. Back then I thought the age difference was a little weird, but the sex was good, so we kept talking. We've been married 9 years at the end of this month. He's 45 now and I'll be 37! Older guys know what they want in life, the young guys just want sex and party.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes, older men are mature = confident, more genuine and not trying to seduce you to the bedroom, patient, more established and more life experience. More sex experience too. Better lovers. So for a woman, i can see why an older guy has way more going for him.

BrownSugar00 · Answer

Yes, but like middle aged men! I find middle aged men to be more mature, experienced, knowledgeable, wise and sexier! George Clooney, is an example, when he was a little bit younger. Another is Brad Pitt, Robert Downey Jr., Robert De Niro, Raul Julia... few of them are now old, or dead (RIP Raul Julia), but they are examples of what I find to be, attractive 😉 🔥

Sour-rose · Answer

No. I met an older guy trying to get in my pants and as he argued with his wife (they were helping me with my car) he was not someone I wanna get in a relationship with. He was loud, threatining to the homeless trying to help, and was a bit tipsy. And just walked away in the middle of a conversation with his wife. She was more cool headed than he was soo... o hell no.

Guy13 · Answer

There’s no way you are real… I have mentors. They are 40-68. They like 🍸 🍸🍸🍸🍸. I do too but boy Serves. I have gotten grey highlights in my hair in last 3 months….

Don't get attached. 40 guys are brutal. 50 guys you may get a lucky 🍀 good one. 60s-70s…keep the home;lock unlock for the kids-you can’t live there but Cleaning and Family Maintenance Fees should be covered at 1400.00 month. See you when I’m around…. from ✈️ Work 🏝

Pkira525 · Answer

Girl, that is completely normal and usually, it's the older men that are more stable and can provide so it makes sense. I was attracted to older men for the longest time and then my boyfriend came into the picture and made me question all my preferences lol i wouldn't trade it for the world tho

fonduegirl · Answer

I've daddy issues. My father isn't attractive, objectively speaking. My mother is. So I might date a hotter, older woman, but I'd never go for an older guy. I don't like them and I ain't cleaning after them if things work out and he retires before me.

jamiexoxo · Answer

older guys have confidence & experience, offering comfort & security, sexually they leave the younger guys in a daze, yeah!! your young guy hammers away like a puppy dog confused where he should look, while a mature gentleman brings the lady on a play of desires, I think it looks very sexy when i see a older man with a hot younger woman,

any girls in to old guys on here?

Autember · Answer

I absolutely think so! There is just something so attractive about a man who has his shit together and knows what he wants out of life. I find that attitude hot in guys my age too but typically comes from older guys haha

RosieMelts · Answer

I used to be the same way, but really it just has to be the right combo for me. When I was a younger girl I had an “older guy” kink, but now that I’m a bit older, I kind of want guys closer to my age, not older 😂.

dustybiker · Answer

Not everyone ages well. Especially if a person doesn’t learn from their mistakes. A lot can remove the “sexy”. Age alone doesn’t smooth everything over.

Haha456 · Answer

I like older but depends on how old. If he's wrinkly, losing hair, gaining weight, saggy balls then it would be a HELL NO! No senior citizens or old fat uncles

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don’t place a high premium on physical youth and beauty, as long as he is healthy and able to survive long enough for a lasting relationship, I just want somebody old enough, that I can trust him to be faithful to me.

Snsl153 · Answer

Oh sure, with their false teeth, arthritic bones, wrinkles, constipation, gout, balding scalp and failing faculties. SO sexy (not). Excuse me while I throw up (blech!).

Crafteroon · Answer

It's clearly a matter of personal taste. And personal taste is partially defined by personal experiences.

Is it them being older, or them having life experiences, responsibilities, and seeming more adult than those closer to your age?

Anonymous · Answer

some of them are very sexy but to me it boils to the point of where i think that they're only for me to admire and have a crush on, not to flirt or date. also, they dont want me or even take me seriously so that would be a waste of time in my part

DannyUk2017 · Answer

If most girls/women would think the same like you... then the world would be a happier place for us "seniors"... 😉

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I don't know about older, but I dig salt & pepper hair on a guy. I know guys who started greying early & damn they look fine with some grey!

Juleskik67 · Answer

There does seem to be more appeal for us older blokes - maybe it's just we are seen as more capable, experienced and "lived" - less fragile, flighty and shallow

Amy10223 · Answer

I do. I guess I guess I am lucky that way now. But when I was your age, few older men got my attention.

LazerBean · Answer

I agree that a man maybe 10 years older is perhaps attractive, but the guy in your picture is like 60. So that's going to be a no for me lol

boredgal · Answer

I find older men attractive because of their wisdom and experience in life.

Sarahr123 · Answer

I do too but unfortunately most are married.

AviatorTom · Answer

Yes we are. We understand your needs and wants, and are willing and able to help you achieve them. Can't beat experience.

Anonymous · Answer

Having the wrinkles makes attractive guys look less douchey, like Johnny Depp. I hate the way he looked when he was younger so much, but he looks cool with the aging. Though I'd prefer an average or slightly below average close age male either way.

DavidRaul · Answer

Well it depends if he is mature enough to handle you. I know people who are in their 50s and behave like a child. I am far more mature than them. So its very subjective

menina · Answer

It depends on how old they are. I prefer men who are older than me but I couldn't be with someone much much older than me.

exitseven · Answer

I don't know what it was but about a year after I got married I started getting asked out by random women. One of them was really hot too. I was 26 or 27 at the time

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Reaper1985 · Answer

older guys tend to be more mature and have some disposable income. part of why the average couple has a 3 to 15 year ago gap.

Orange85 · Answer

I don’t like older men. I’m 36 I prefer up to 40. Older men look like my dad 🤮

1GoldTwins · Answer

Their experience is sexier but that's all I agree on.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Answer

Mature men know who they are, and that makes them more attractive than younger ones., they simply dont pretend or be anyone... just simply enjoying just the way they are 😇

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Nah that depends, not everyone matures like red wine. Some guys might look like handsome Sean Connery or Christopher Lee at old age but many dont.

TonightYouu · Answer

Mmm yea so hot 😒

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Depends on how old compared to your age. A man that is 7 to 10 years older than you then it makes sense you will find such a man sexy and attractive. A man that can be your dad and grandpa then no.

BPanda · Answer

I like older men. I think it’s the maturity

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, it's fine to like Older Guys you're legal no need to worry about things.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

Absolutely Girl! my boyfriend is 60 and looks like Tom Selleck he's 5 years older than me. he is genital as a teddy bear with me but a real man when it comes to protecting me. He's all man. thats what attracts me to him.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

Yes 😖 I love older men. The salt and pepper look, how they treat you, the life experience they have I love it all

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Entirely subjective, depending on what you think is “sexy”.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

It's about as normal as men thinking younger women is more attractive.

bakajana · Answer

I used to like older guys more when I was younger, now I don't have a preference.

Anonymous · Answer

They are so sexy. Omg I love a man with a salt and pepper beard and hair. An I'm only 22. It turns me on.

Andro36 · Answer

My husband is 16 years older than me and I still find him very attractive

genericname85 · Answer

yeah and when a man says younger is sexy, people call him a pedo, even though she's an adult :D

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

It's very simple men find younger women sexier while women find older men sexier only women that are mad are women in their 30s and above that can't get men same age as them.

Fuentes · Answer

Don't really care but don't support women marrying old men just for them to die and take their money you can't justify marrying a 60-70 year old today most older men die at that age.

Manuel2 · Answer

I totally agree. But to be fare. The shy guys get more bolder the older they get. It is like in women. First to wear a bra is the first to end up flst chested

YollyM · Answer

No they're not more attractive, objectively speaking.

Kabluie · Answer

I usually attract recent college grads to mid 20s. So it’s definitely a thing.

elly91 · Answer

They can be especially if they're the good looking older guys!

_deeznuts · Answer

i dont agree at all, but everyone has their own preference lmao pop off

Jamesshinobi · Answer

im an older guy. we are gruff cranky amd dont waste time. if thats what you think is sexy then yes. if not? fuck off we won't mind.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Let me guess, with my luck, you live in Maine.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure whether it's because I'm older or because I'm married (both?) but since I've been married I get a lot more attention from younger ladies.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Only girls with daddy issues like older men.

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