My friend with benefits going to pursue someone romantic, I knew about this but he didn't tell me anything and act like nothing happens. what do I do?

[Anonymous]

im hurt after knowing this..

[Smoke-n-Growls]

He's your friends with benefits, if you weren't clear on the nature of that relationship from the start, that's kind of a you problem.

Unless you two had agreed to something before hand, he's not doing anything out of sorts or out of left field.

What did you think friends with benefits meant?

[AsaKyo]

Because you're not a couple
You're literally just fuck buddies
If you didn't wanna get hurt, you shouldn't have pursued it to begin with

[Sixgunsound]

Well, when you accept being used by someone who doesn’t love you in a no strings attached situation, I don’t really see anyone else but you are to blame for it eventually not ending up the way you hoped it would.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[OlderAndWiser]

Why are you hurt? It is just meaningless sex for fun, no emotions involved. . . right? Or did you go into this hoping that it would turn into something more?

[Asker]

why no emotion involved? he was always around me acted like a boyfriend, even we were always kissing

[Wade12345]

You can have some meaningless "rebound sex" with me. lol.

[Jltakk]

why are you hurt, there's no strings attached, or am I missing something in this story?

[Asker]

if the sex doesn't involve with kisses, pillow talk, care each other,.. I won't get hurt. but the thing is I get hurt

[In_Trance]

You need to wake up. You're not in a relationship

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣