Guys: Do you struggle to fight with temptation to not cheat on your girlfriend/wife? (Page 2)
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We all do because there is lots of eye candy and more than ever it will be pushed upon you. It is part of life today in a way that my parents openly speak about. Wasn't close to this when we were you age etc...
Men can’t easily cheat like a woman. They have to put in work unless a girl is jumping his bones. Looking and lusting is a different story. Have you ever seen a girl with big boobs and butt in leggings or bikini? It’s extremely difficult to not look. There is a way to train your eyes to bounce from place to place so you don’t stare. Takes practice.
Not really--no. We look all the time, but the existence of a hot girl isn't really a temptation to cheat. Most men never face a REAL temptation to cheat. For most of us, we'd have to actively pursue opportunities to cheat which we don't do. There's very little in the way of active "temptation" that most guys are ever exposed to.
No, looking is not even remotely the same thing as actually thinking about cheating. Not noticing an attractive woman is hard. Not having sex with her is easy.
Women have a different perspective on this than men because you see it through female lenses.
Most men do not get the endless attention and options that most women are accustomed to on a regular basis so your idea that men are “fighting” the urge to cheat is based on your ability to pick and choose who and when you fuck.
We look at other women in admiration of their beauty but the “urge to cheat” is not as common in men as women believe it is based on their world view.
Since I'm in an open relationship, my SO and I don't have that issue. And for all you haters of open relationships, we have far less concern about who we look at because we can acknowledge there are tons of other sexy people out there. If we want one of them, it's not forbidden, but it doesn't mean we fuck everyone we see who we want. Meanwhile, you all lust after other people and "cheat" in the end, then break up, and we're still together. So who's the crazy people, us or you?
I wouldn't call it a struggle, but every once in a while I am tempted by a very attractive woman. Too risky though... it would damage our (SO and me) relationship.
If Kate Beckingsale or Megan Fox wanted to seduce me I can't make any promises, that being said there is no struggle. Sure I might look and maybe fantasize a bit but don't want to ruin my relationship.
We always check girls out always. I wait for female pedestrians to clear the crossing because I want to check out their ass as well as their breasts.
No, I had been asked out a few times when I first got married and did not even think about chaeting.
No he's not fighting or struggling, he's enjoying the view.
I have never cheated first when in a relationship.. I'm a very loyal person until... she does it first... then I do it to get even...
There's no temptation of cheating. If a person really loves their partner then he's not even gonna think of another girl as more than friends. Girl you have problems in your relationship.
It’s not really an issue for me and I’m happy about that.
Unless the guy is dating a stripper, he’s always gonna be tempted to cheat because strippers are the only women that can make a man happy and stop all urges to cheat
Weirdo.
I disagree
I don't. People only do that if they aren't happy with who they are with, and are too chicken to just leave.
This is how men do not know the value of the things they have
What a wife? Something that literally any woman can do or be yea so hard to find 🙄
@TonightYouu don't feed the troll misandrist
No.
My fiance is the only woman for me, she's the sexiest, most beautiful, amazing woman there is, no woman compares to her in any way, she's everything I need and want.
I like looking at hot girls. They're hot. I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend. Although if that girl wanted to give me a strip tease or show me how she looks naked, I'd be fine with it.
What's so hard about being loyal to your girlfriend or boyfriend?
There are many other women who are way more attractive than her
@TonightYouu Maybe you're just not with the right person if you think that, then
@asakyo there’s always a prettier girl🙄
@TonightYouu why would you be her partner/lover at the first place when you see there's lot of women that are prettier out there than you think your girlfriend are
In relationship, both couples needs
to be serious about their rs. Love, trust and loyalty are important if you're really into her. Or if you actually don't then you shouldn't stay any longer with her. She don't deserve it let her be free. You're not serious, don't try to be in a rs yet.