Why do some Men show off their Woman with revealing Clothing in Public?

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Tonight I was at my favorite pizza joint. It's a family place in a nice suburban neighborhood.

A couple walks in and the young woman has shorts that reveals half her butt. She was with this guy, and they seemed chill.

Most of the people and guys like me were checking out her exposed bottom, and I studied the couple. After they ordered, they stood in front of everyone and this woman crossed her arms over her chest.

Her boyfriend gives her a funky stare and she began to reluctantly drop her arms down that revealed her boobs, nearly see through in a cheap white sports bra. You could see everything. No imagination was needed and she looked humiliated.

Everyone was checking her out, and many women in the pizzeria had very disapproving stares. And I noticed that her boyfriend was getting off.

I have heard stories from friends. Mostly guys who went out to a customer's home to install something and the husband asks the tech if he minds his wife to walk around topless or naked? Even asking sometimes what my tech friends thought about her body. Same thing as the couple tonight, with the man totally getting off showing his wife's body. Same wife reaction not too comfortable showing off, but going along with it.

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Dude, feminists say if a woman dresses like a total whore it's "empowering"... so I'm not sure I should care if some woman is walking around looking like a total whore. If that woman you saw is so uncomfortable she should get out of the relationship or call 911. None of my business. It would be "toxic masculinity" for me to give one crap about her situation.

Did I ever want my woman dressing like a total whore? Nope. But I do prefer her to be attractive and wear attractive things (more often than not). That doesn't mean showing butt or dressing like a hooker tho. And when I was younger I wanted 'her' to show a little more because that's what I was used to looking AT and for. But once you're secure in a serious relationship it should change more to, 'I don't want other dudes getting THAT excited about my woman". Ha, ha.

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Far as the customer install situation... If I'm in your friend's shoe's I'd have zero interest in seeing some dude's wife naked. 1.) If I don't like what I see, I'm in a situation where I have to pretend to like it, 2.) If I do like what I see I'm not going to be focused enough on my work. If I do a bad job is the dude & his wife going to take my side and defend me to my boss? Nope. F'k them. 3.) A guy weird enough to want to shove his wife's naked tits in your face is probably also weird enough to kill you and eat you or do other weird crap.. like the dude who killed the Asian restaurant delivery guy over duck sauce. No thanks.

[PsychedelicZebra]

Men don't control what a woman wears, she does. At least in healthy relationships.

If you're talking about unhealthy relationships, well, that's a whole other question.

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They are not real men. No real man would want his woman exposed. Also, he could be pimping out his girlfriend. Surprisingly, common reality.

[Juxtapose]

It's just a kink and doesn't invalidate XY chromosomes.

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@Juxtapose XY chromosomes indicate someone is male. Manhood is an entirely different thing all together.

[Juxtapose]

Sounds like a social construct then just like gender. Biological sex is what I pay attention to.

[Anonymous]

It's a kink. Since she wasn't comfortable, that's not ok. Even if they both are fine with it, social propriety and decency still should be considered. Plus the possibility of minors being present.

[Anonymous]

She lost a bet or is doing some kinky thing for him. Or maybe she’s being trained by him.