How do you get a boy to like you?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this boy i’m talking to and there are constantly girls prettier around him and i feel horrible about it. i wonder if i’m even worth his time. my friend said he’s possibly flirting with me but i dont know. i’m not the girl men flirt with, or like generally. i dont even have any guy friends because i’m like, dude repellent. its hard.

[TDDMS]

Firstly ignore anyone who says, "Just be yourself." That's not practical advice. No, you shouldn't portend to be someone or something you are not. However, you need to set yourself apart from the other girls. Hence differentiate yourself. If the other girls are just being teases, don't be a tease. Show a genuine interest in his activities, which requires you to ask him what does he like. Also, don't hesitate and go for broke. . . ask him out to dinner. If he refuses, then you're SOL & JWF. The only good thing that can come from this interaction at that point is that it gave you a glimpse of the man you want. Next time, you'll have an idea of what type of man to seek.

[rip999]

Soooooo if you're not yourself that means you always have to act to be someone as long as you're in the relationship? I dated a girl that only did shit because she knew I wouldn't like it even tho she wanted to do it. I felt lied to and betrayed. When the relationship ended I felt that women wasted my time. Don't follow this advice. Be yourself so the person falls in love with you. You're under 18 you have a lot to grow

[TDDMS]

@rip999 No, you missed the sentence where I said, "No, you shouldn't portend to be someone. . . " Telling someone "to be yourself" is useless advice. It would be like going up to a retard and saying, "Hey retard stop being retarded."

[slatyb]

Why do you believe they are more attractive than you? My wife believed that she was unattractive at your age but photos show that she was exceptionally attractive.

[Asker]

cause she has a better body than i do, better makeup, better facial structure, she's cute when she looks up, like she's just so much better and i feel like shit whenever they talk

[WhitneySnow]

If he’s flirting with you flirt back. Talk to him a little.

[Anonymous]

Just be yourself and don't change for anyone.

[Wise4myage]

Stop worrying about the other girls, and make an effort to flirt with this guy and see what happens.

[In_Trance]

Be yourself and the right boy will

[Asker]

i do that and i just get bullied lmfao