If most women are willing to fix Or work with a man why do men still complain?

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Most women will adjust to a man situation and even help them out. You also see some women will move a man in her home knowing he was homeless when they first. She will help them fix there credit score as well. For the right one.

Why do men still complain or cheat on them?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

You are talking about an exception at best. 90+% of the time, it's a man taking a woman into his home, not the other way around. And women are very well-known for thinking "this guy is hot and exciting, but he has a bunch of things I don't like about him... so I'll FIX HIM!" Men are not your project.

Your job is to find a man who is ALREADY the kind of man you want, especially his morals, values, and life-goals. The only way to know this is to vet them IN ADVANCE, before you commit to a relationship with them, and that means you have to TALK about these things in detail. But how many people do that (and I'm blaming men just as much as women here - most people of both genders are guilty of not doing this!)?

If you learn anything, learn this: any man you pick to be with is going to be the exact same guy 20 years later as he is the day you meet him - he's not going to change - so you need to make REALLY sure he's the guy you want, because you're going to need to accept him JUST AS HE IS for the rest of your relationship.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

In my experience, women my not be willing to fix a man at all, but if they are, they want to fix him to match their rules. And when that happens, men have the right to complain because it's not the man's rules they're being forced to follow.

There's an old saying about men and women getting married, which has some truth to it.

Man: I love you just the way you are. Don't change.

Woman: I love you, you're perfect, now change.

What happens: The man stays the same and the woman changes.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Because he just doesn't want that specific woman. people will straighten up for the one they want to be with.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Their inflated sense of entitlement

ALPHABLACK · Answer

I think you have not turned on your TV or something in a really long time coz the current rate is 20 male suicide per day coz women get them in legal trouble and all sort of trouble and force them to end their lives. Also divorce is filed by females first almost 80 percent so I don't see any reality in your

So called most women are willing shit

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think this is a complex issue. Yes, there are some very generous women. And they go above and beyond to help their boyfriends. And honestly, I think that's really admirable. It shows that they have a heart of gold. However, what also often is the case is that these girls choose a guy who is a complete asshole and he takes advantage of her kindness and uses her. He is completely unappreciative and he shows no respect for her for all that she does for him, because he is a narcissist.

Anonymous · Answer

1st problem… believing men need to be fixed.

2nd problem… most women do NOT accommodate things they don’t like. They insist on them being fixed or removed. Which is why divorce is 90% initiated by women.

Then as a final note…

men who “cheat” generally do it because new vagina was offered and that is a rare thing unlike women who are given endless opportunities. So it has nothing to do with how happy he is or how much he cares for his woman. It is simply a new vagina to play with.

In_Trance · Answer

I'll never understand this thinking Women think they can change men; just like men think they can save women They can't.

Anonymous · Answer

The other side of that coin is that women try to "fix" men, which means trying to change a man to suit a woman's wishes and needs. Women are notorious for that.

Also, if you consider the fact that women file 80% of divorces, I think your claim that women will adjust to a man's situation is false.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The relationships don't have a foundation of respect. The woman is being loving without getting the respect she needs to get before hand.

clampfan101 · Answer

Relationships are about working together to help each other. I would never cheat, and am more than willing to adjust in various ways for a SO.

Juxtapose · Answer

Really now? That has not been my experience, the women who are super generous like that are almost always taken.

msc545 · Answer

Mostly because most women will not do what you are describing.

Anonymous · Answer

I give you freedom all I ask is your eternal obedience. 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Because they're idiots. Stop inviting men into your home and stop trying to fix them

Sixgunsound · Answer

I would imagine every situation is unique

Alex8736 · Answer

One word for that. Narcissism

Andres77 · Answer

Well…

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Wait, what?

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