Is my boyfriend mental?

[Anonymous]

First he said i can stay no more at his house, he can't trust nobody not even me because people fucked him up a lot and he has trust issues

Then he said im using him because he has a house near job where i go to study after work, with his keys...

After that he asked if we must finsh our relationship

He asked me to give him time

Then he said i actually can go to his house to study

Then he said we will talk about it at Thursday, means he wants me to stay there after studying

What in the fuck?

I said i dont wanna be with someone unstable and i want a man make me happy

He said i can start searching then

Updates

+1 y

He even keeps his salary in cash in the office, not bank or his house
Because he said"Ill keep money there until i get sane in the head"
Means... he knows his problem and if he has the money he will spend it all
In drinks or drugs or both

[CA4444]

I have to say it made me laugh too sorry 😬 I have trust issues too and it can ruin everything it’s horrible, not to take lightly, but if you try to reassure him on every points he makes (ie tell him clearly ‘no i am not using you’ and then give proof) and if he tries to keep it under control ie not freak out then it could potentially work right?

Trust ‘issues’ are also normal to an extent at the beginning of a relationship, you have to build the trust and it takes time and maybe conscious efforts too. Why would anyone expect complete trust from the start it doesn’t make sense.

you can decide what you want, if you want to stay with him then it’s a good proof of love for him and you can tell him that, hopefully he’ll appreciate it, that you are staying despite his issues which make the relationship uncomfortable for you.

good luck 😊

[Asker]

1.6 year together

[Changiis07]

Probably not mental but he def has trust issues. He needs to work on himself before getting into a relationship otherwise he will think everyone is going to F*** him over like he said. You can either stay or move on and not deal with someone unstable

[Asker]

He had panick attack
He said he couldnt breath
Aircon switch off
Tv all by itslef on and off
I mean... im scared

[Asker]

1 day ago he was calling me his sweet little thing he bought me a parfume
He was so sweet to me
Now he deleted all my messages
Soryy... he said the phone deleted it by itslef!!! yes he said it did
He called me "work coleague"
And not by my name

[20yearsolder]

If you want to deal with this shit for the rest of your life continue to hang around this dip shit. No one deserved to be treated that way. You've already recognized that you don't like it and it's never going to get better. He's the one that has to want to get better. Has nothing to do with you

[Asker]

He told me to calm down
And not to worry because he said the problem is him and not me

[Guy13]

No one right in that house ⁉️

[Asker]

Nobody there

[Guy13]

Man, so that means it is a Crazy 🤡 House 🎪. What goes on inside 🔭 there now ⁉️

[888theGreat]

I think he is funny. That sounds right

[Asker]

Funny when you read it
Not when you ar einnit

[Anonymous]

😂😂😂

[Asker]

Yeah... funny reading
I cried

[Opinion Owner]

Aw girl I'm sorry..
Please run away from him.

This kind of guy can do anything beyond your thinking.

[Asker]

I feel stupid for loving him
He recognised he is not well in his head

[Asker]

What he can do
What you mean