Did I ruin my chances with the 36 yo divorced single dad by confessing to him that I'm a 24 yo virgin that has never dated?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I seriously doubt it. If he’s looking to just boink you he may not be interested as some men don’t like virgins cause they don’t know what to do sexually. On the other hand some men do like virgins because it’s about bragging rights. To be able to say he showed her how to do this, how to do that, she swallowed for the first time, etc. I don’t think you ruined your chances. If I was him I’d be excited. But the thing about it is the timing. Is he ready for a new relationship. You don’t want to come in at the wrong time if he’s not ready to be w someone. He may want to smash but not want a relationship if it’s too early.

[20yearsolder]

We don't know that, the only person you're going to get that answer from is him. If shortly after you told him that you were 24-year-old virgin, if he stopped communicating then yeah that was probably the main issue.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Is it because you weren’t honest with him about your age?


If I found out that someone I was flirting with was born when I was 12, I would stop talking to them immediately.


That’s just pedophilia with extra steps.

[Asker]

At 24 I'm a grown adult

[NotTacocaT6969]

Yes, you’re a grown adult.

That doesn’t make age-gaps disappear.

How would you feel if a 12 year old tried to hit on you?

Well, that’s how he feels.

[Visionary7]

If you mean he got put off by you because of that then no. You dodged a bullet

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not, and in fact you probably got more attractive in his eyes. What would have been a problem would have been if you were a single mom.

[Asker]

I started to feel insecure. I guess in my mind he'd look at me like some loser in that area. I don't know but I feel less. I have my life together professionally and everything else that's important but me never dating takes a toll on me.

[Avicenna]

IMHO, you have nothing to worry about and sound like someone he'd definitely want to date.

[Berethor]

You young and you innocent, most men prefer a girl like that, it's him who has a baggage.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't think you have.

[swettannie]

can't tell with that amount of information

[FilmGuy93]

Probably

[Asker]

Why?

[FilmGuy93]

Taking a virgin requires a much bigger emotional investment than a guy like him is likely interested in putting in. A 36 yr old man isn't talking to a woman your age to take her seriously.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily.

[Opinion Owner]

Stay positive and its loss if that turned him off.

[Guy13]

Probably…

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Asker]

Why?