If a male colleague is happy to just have a 3 minute chat with you and not talk to or see you more often than that, does it mean he doesn't like you?

[Anonymous]

in that way and will never ask you out?

I feel so alone and delusional.

[Iron_Man]

How do you know it’s just not a three minute conversation to take care of business in the work field? you’re gonna have to explain more than that

[Asker]

These aren't about taking care of business.. Sometimes it's just random stuff that has nothing to do with getting the work done.

[Iron_Man]

Well try to talk more than three minutes next time

[Asker]

Yeah see i stood there more and he started to talk away to go do his work. So i figured ok I guess thats the end of that convo.

[Asker]

He started to wall away after like 3 mins*

[Iron_Man]

There’s always tomorrow make the most of it

[Asker]

Okay thanks you're so positive :)

[Iron_Man]

Thanks and you are very welcome

[Avicenna]

No, it could mean lots of things, but I wouldn't assume that.

[Asker]

The thing is i dont see each other at work that often so these little chats are getting to be few and far between.

[Anonymous]

It means you are not high on his priority list.

[Asker]

That hurts

[In_Trance]

pretty much