Will we ever have a chance?

[Anonymous]

I remember in high school i always had a crush on this older guy, so when he went to university and i was still in school i messaged him anonymous on social media (pls dont judge me thats not the topic atm). I messaged him for seceral times trough a longer period of time and once we really had a bond. We got off topic and he told me a lot about himself for that that he didn't know who he was talking trough. He always told me that he is curious how i look like and wants to see a picture of me since he believes i must be "cute". So i did sent him a mirror pic and my face was a little bit covered. But it was a nice pic and i wore nice clothes. So he didn't texted me as much as i hopef he would after the photo. But randomly he texted me one year later. It was flirty at the beginning but than it was again nothing special.

Now im going to the same uni as him and i dmd him asking him questions about the university. I really did wanted to know but can't lie i enjoy talking to him too. He always is so friendly i know i can trust him and tell him everything as he understands, but its still never like that he really wants to get to know me and is intrested in a relationship.

im on the other hand always find back to him and can't get him out of my head. Seeing what fine man he got to be i wish i be with him.

i just dont kbow what to do wil we ever have a chance?

[Wise4myage]

No, try if you want too, but I see this being a total waste of time.

[Guy13]

Move on…

[Asker]

Ok why?

[Guy13]

It seems like to me that he saw your face and decided the girl he was testing out was worth keeping. Calling you back in a year confirms that for me as a guy. This is character... it will happen again. I would not get involved with that. YOu are at least 18 which is significantly younger than I am. Go learn it yourself... I mean you're young !! It is clear that you are going to anyway and he can sense it. You'll get that attention... time. conversation for sure. Date others for sure but do not throw it in his face or Social Media. 3 eggs and two are going to crack and run anyway. Increase your probability of a sunny side up.-Sorry-butt man crept into my head. You know what I mean !!!
If this rambling isn't making sense feel free to follow up ;-)

[Asker]

Sorry but i really dont understand what you mean. He did NOT see my face ob that photo (i wrote it down) and what girl was he testing and decided she was wirth keeping? And what you mean was he thinking when he called me back one year later? And what you mean with the rest of the text? Sorry please explain to me

[Guy13]

re-read your explanation.

[Asker]

No he didn't saw my face at all! My face was fuly covered than i made a mistake you coundt see my face and i didn't wore anythink secual just to make that clear. It was just mirror pic of me and i wore a modest skirt and dress it was summar. Nothing sexual!

[Guy13]

I am a guy, therefore, your facts are irrelevant to reality from what you posted. I am telling you he had a girl that he was trying out. It did not work out and he contacted you again... year later

[Asker]

I get it

But he doesn't right me anymore so...
and when he messaged me it wa sstill not that flirty and intrested

[Guy13]

He is occupying his Time at your expense... in my opinion. In my view, he is too worthless for you to be expending this much thought and energy on.

[Asker]

So sad. But its okay you know. But i really would have loved him with all my heard! So sad he doesn't give me any chance... dumbass

[Guy13]

I get that sense about you even through the computer. Yep, he is missing a good one.

[Asker]

Tuank you so much and sorry for my bad English hahha
I meant heart* but you still got it!
Thank you very much and can we maybe private dm each other? :)

[Guy13]

I have no idea how to do an anon for dm?

[Asker]

I followed you😊

[Guy13]

You are in high school?

[Asker]

No im going to university