my ex and I have had a tumultuous relationship to say the least. Thats not to say it’s been particularly bad, just difficult. He broke up with me after only a couple months of dating, even though things seemed really good when we were officially together.
however from the beginning it seemed he had issues with commitment as he said multiple times that the relationship wouldn’t last forever.
then, when he broke up with me, we stayed in contact and kept hanging out regularly and also hooking up. He even met all of my friends during this time.
then, after a couple months of that he pulled away quite suddenly and when I asked him why he said he didn’t love me and didn’t see a future with me.
i was extremely hurt and ended up going no contact for quite a while. He eventually reached out to check on me and then continued to check on me at least once a month.
then, contact slowly increased and we started hanging out again. He seemed quite flirty and friendly. (Innuendos, teasing, etc) and we were spending 3-5 hours together at a time
Then he said that if he didn’t have issues he would’ve married me. Huh?
we ended up hanging out a couple weeks ago and we did hook up. Afterwards he said it should be the last time, but then proceeded to say we should hangout again after parting ways.
if I was smart I would just cut ties with him completely, but alas I am not smart and I’m also confused about this entire long and complicated situation. I do still have a soft spot for him and its hard because I don’t feel like we ever truly got the chance to know each other intimately and on a deeper level while we were officially together and it would be nice to get that opportunity again. what are everyone’s thoughts on this? And please, there is no need for judgement or to be rude. Just honest impressions/advice
