So, I met this guy on a dating app like 2 months ago. On our first hangout we had sex, but ONLY because his profile said that he was looking for something causal and that he was in a open long distance relationship. I knew what I was getting myself into but i went for it anyway because I was upset that my dog had just passed away and I needed some reassurance and I was sad. I text him and ask if he wanted to meet up again and we did and had a lot of fun at his place and talked for hours.
We hung out over this past weekend and Monday-Fri and I had an wonderful time. We were both very honest with each other and we were both on the same page about the whole sex thing. We had a lot of sex , but it really wasn’t the sex for me. I felt a connection with this guy like never before. I was able to be myself around him and I felt very comfortable with him. I could look deep into his eyes while he talked and didn’t feel a need to turn away. We had so much more in common then I thought as I got to know him more. He took me out a few times and we went to this really cool festival. We enjoyed many laughs and he would tell me everything about his life and future and was very open with me. At one point I asked if he loved his girlfriend and he said yes but does not see himself with her long term because she doesn’t want kids and he does. He also mentioned that he would never do an open relationship again because there are too many feelings involved.
We said our goodbyes and I got a little upset when leaving. We text after we said our goodbyes and he said that “if the situation was different he would have definitely loved to get to know me more, and that we had some connection past physical” He also said that he will never forget our time together. I miss him and I was wondering if it would be stupid to text him and say “well if a situation comes up where we are both available I would love to see you again”?
We hung out over this past weekend and Monday-Fri and I had an wonderful time. We were both very honest with each other and we were both on the same page about the whole sex thing. We had a lot of sex , but it really wasn’t the sex for me. I felt a connection with this guy like never before. I was able to be myself around him and I felt very comfortable with him. I could look deep into his eyes while he talked and didn’t feel a need to turn away. We had so much more in common then I thought as I got to know him more. He took me out a few times and we went to this really cool festival. We enjoyed many laughs and he would tell me everything about his life and future and was very open with me. At one point I asked if he loved his girlfriend and he said yes but does not see himself with her long term because she doesn’t want kids and he does. He also mentioned that he would never do an open relationship again because there are too many feelings involved.
We said our goodbyes and I got a little upset when leaving. We text after we said our goodbyes and he said that “if the situation was different he would have definitely loved to get to know me more, and that we had some connection past physical” He also said that he will never forget our time together. I miss him and I was wondering if it would be stupid to text him and say “well if a situation comes up where we are both available I would love to see you again”?
