Was he just trying to get back at me or was he telling me the “truth” about myself?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to a guy on and off for a few months and we were going to be friends with benefits but our jobs got in the way so we just talked. He’s a firefighter

anyway, I had got mad at him and said that I was glad that his job was dangerous because it raises the likelyhood of something happening to you..

he said “I won’t hold that against you because you don’t know my life or the things I’ve been going through.

I told him I didn’t care and that I’m good enough

he said, I can believe whatever I conjure

he ended up saying that he thinks I’m “ lonely , angry and very insecure..” he wasn’t wrong tho

[FilmGuy93]

What the hell is wrong with you that you told him that you hope something happens to him on the job?

[Asker]

I was mad 🤷🏽‍♀️

[FilmGuy93]

About what?

[Asker]

Just about our whole situation and he was making me feel some type of way

[FilmGuy93]

Y'all just shouldn't be together lol You're clearly not good for each other.

[Asker]

No but I do care about him and like him as a friend

[FilmGuy93]

You gotta get out of there, girl. It's bad for both of your mental/spiritual hygiene.

[Asker]

I apologized. We hadn’t talked for months.. there’s no bad blood and he already said that he doesn’t want a relationship

[Asker]

But I do think we care about eachother. I said something mean but I’ll be the first one crying if something did happen to him

[FilmGuy93]

Please just take a step back. One day, you'll thank me.

[Asker]

Why lol?

[FilmGuy93]

Because the relationship is unhealthy and bad for you, and once you take a step back, you'll see just how unhealthy it really is.

[Asker]

I just really love him

[Asker]

He’s married now

[Guy13]

He’s right and you blew 💣 under the pressure 🤷🏻‍♂️ Why ⁉️

[Asker]

How is he right? I mean yes there are things I can work on but he’s not accurate

[Guy13]

By your reaction his closing words and thoughts were quite accurate. Like someone who is not over last relationship 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

You’re saying I’m not over my last relationship?

[Guy13]

I don’t know as I’m not there. That would be my guess from the exchange…if I was him 🤷🏻‍♂️

[jimmy2]

He wrong just go on down the road of life

[Asker]

lol why do you say he’s wrong?