Did he tell the truth? Or he was just turning me down easily?

[Anonymous]

I feel confused. we both come from cultures were we date to marry. Before our first daye we were chatting daily for almost 2 months before our date. During our date I asked him about his future goals and I told mine.

after our date he sent me long text saying that our futures don’t line up snd for that reasong we shoulnd’t see again. When I asked him what exact goal didn’t line up he didn’t want to tell me.

[leahzrc]

this was his way of turning you down. Move on from him, you will find someone better

[Asker]

I was wondering because after the date when I’ve seen him in public he’s looked at me intensely. Also he’s viewed my public instagram story updates despite not following me. Why would he do that long after we stopped talking?

[leahzrc]

because he recognizes you. I unfortunately run into exes in public and they gonna notice and play it off like they don't know you.

[Asker]

What about him viewing my story without nit even following me? He’s done it twice so far

[leahzrc]

okay that is a little questionable. Could be saw you in public and he was curious about what you were up to. Or he wanted to see if you were talking to someone else.

[Asker]

Doesn’t that mean that he’s intetrsted? It’s been lobg since we’e talked…

[leahzrc]

if he was interested he would have dmed you

[leahzrc]

or he is shy

[leahzrc]

like could be you are out of his league

[leahzrc]

need reference photos haha

[Asker]

He seems shy. During our date he couldn’t even look at me in my eyes. When we first start talking this is how it’s started. He was viewing my story and I eventually followed him and dm’d him.

[leahzrc]

He would dm you

[Asker]

So he’s checking my stories now for the sake of it?

[leahzrc]

maybe he can't pull anyone else and is grasping at straws trying to get action

[Asker]

He’s handsome tbh he could pull many girls if he wanted

[leahzrc]

Exactly. He knows this

[Asker]

Then why keep tabs on me?

[leahzrc]

Because men are disgusting and keep tabs on girls that still want them

[Asker]

After this time he can’t know if I sant him or not

[Asker]

Want*

[BarryLiverstone]

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