So I am bicurious and my male friend told me I won’t find what I’m looking for with a woman and he looked very serious. What did he mean?

[Anonymous]

He looked into my eyes. I went on a date with him some months ago and he thought I rejected him and so he has recently started dating another girl. Why did he say this to me?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he's just being truthful? But don't let his opinion stop you from exploring your sexuality.

[Asker]

Truthful how? What does he think I’m looking for?

[Wise4myage]

Truthful as in you won't like it.

[OlderAndWiser]

"he thought I rejected him" Did you reject him? If not, did you clear up the mistake?

[Asker]

I said to him “how did I reject you?”

[OlderAndWiser]

That question did not clear the air. Did you say to him, "No, I didn't try to say or do anything to reject you and I'm still interested in you?"

[Asker]

I didn’t say that outright but I think he knows I like him.

[OlderAndWiser]

"I think he knows" You have no clue whether he knows and it is not important enough to tell him openly and directly? Sounds like game playing.