So i like this guy from my class, and he gave me all signs that he likes me too (he starred at me a lot, smiled every time etc). And he really doesn't do this to any other girl. I also heard him talking with his friend that he likes me, but he is too shy to approach me. Eventually he approached me and we started talking. He really gave me many signs that he likes me. So one day i told him how i feel about him, and he started denying flirting with me and said that he never liked me, and that he talked to my just as a friend. Then i told him that i heard him talking with his friend that he likes me, and he didn't know what to say, eventually said that he just played with me. I was really hurt. So the days after we saw each other in the hallway but he always avoided me. Then i decided to avoid him too, and now he started to walk around me just so that i could see him. He looks at me, but doesn't come talking. I just dont get it, he rejected me at first and now he walks around and wants my attention. Why?
I think that when a guy likes you, you'll know. I think when you meet a guy who truly likes you, you won't have to ask yourself "does he? or doesn't he?" because he'll make it known to you that he does.
It sounds like he likes your attention more than he likes you. But if I'm wrong, and he does actually like you, he's not being honest about it and he's also hurting your feelings. Are you sure you want someone who behaves like that? Do you really want someone who plays with your emotions like that?
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Sounds like Chuck Bass from Gossip girl. The dismissive avoidant type.
Well ASSUMING you're telling the full truth and not just your version of it. Then he doesn't want to be with anyone he can have really. Some people don't want relationships they just want the power of knowing they can.
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I don’t get it. Not my style at all 🤷🏻♂️
He is immature, ignore him.
He is playing games
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