Why does he let me go so easily? ?

[Anonymous]

Why is it so easy for him to let go

why am I not enough for him to want a relationship

[MrOracle]

You've given us zero context to answer the question, so I'm going to give you some general answers. They may not apply specifically to you.

It could be that you aren't "girlfriend/wife material." Since I've just been involved in a long discussion about this, you can read more about that here:

What qualities make a girl NOT wife material?

It could also be that you've chosen a top 10% kind of guy. Is he good-looking and popular with the ladies? Has had lots of girls before you? If so, you're dealing with a guy who has tons of options for women, and has little trouble getting sex from women, and he can get everything he wants without needing to risk a commitment on any girl. He'll keep a girl around as long as she's fun and he gets what he wants, and as soon as she becomes a hassle, he can dump her and easily replace her with a new one. On the social marketplace, he's out of your league and he knows it (his social market value is higher than yours). He'll happily sleep with girls with SMV far lower than his own, but he'd never commit to them. If he'd ever consider committing to ANY girl, she'd have to be a 10/10 in his eyes - basically perfect in every way. And even then, those guys will often still cheat. But he's ATTRACTIVE, so most girls really want to be with guys like this, and convince themselves that SHE will be the one he changes for - but he never changes for anyone.

It's also possible - but less common - that you've come across a guy who isn't especially handsome or popular - doesn't get tons of girls - but who is still a narcissist - everything is always about what HE gets and what HE wants, and to him, nothing you want matters. Usually, only the most attractive guys can get away with this, but some of these guys exist among more average men, and their confidence and ease at talking to women is attractive early on, and it takes a little while for women who date them to wake up to their narcissistic tendencies.

As a woman, you may think of yourself as a complete package, but from a man's perspective, you have two distinct things to offer a man that he could care about: a romantic relationship and all that comes with it, OR, casual sex. And far more men will want you ONLY for casual sex than will want you for a romantic relationship - that's true of any woman. It's YOUR job to FILTER through the men you meet and who show interest in you, and ELIMINATE the ones who only want casual sex, and only engage with those who actually want a relationship. You cannot CHANGE what a man wants from you, and you cannot EARN a relationship by giving a man casual sex. He either wants a relationship with you or he doesn't, and if he doesn't, you have to be able to move on and forget about him, because you won't ever change him.

[boggboss]

Because he dont care about u

[Asker]

Okay

[Guy13]

Ask him, seriously...