What qualities make a girl NOT wife material?

[Anonymous]

[ShadezMcgee]

- Political extremes. Placing politics at the forefront saying they won't date anyone who has even a sliver of the opposite part's ideals and beliefs. If they can't accept differences and place this at the forefront, it shows caring more for trivial bullshit and opens the floodgates for other idiosyncrasies down the line.

- Constantly combative and unwilling to compromise. It is one thing to stand for what you believe, but whenever a woman has so much pride and arrogance to the point she has to constantly challenge or argue in an attempt to be right or get her way, it is a huge turn off. At that point she isn't a pleasant person, she is just a bitch. This also ties into being able to accept being wrong and taking accountability for poor behavior.

- Poor communication. Women are never direct, they speak in metaphor or use hypothetical stories or scenarios or past moments to call out or bring to attention something that bothers them that they want to address. Jesus fucking Christ, this is one of the most maddening things about them. Ladies, for the love of all that is holy, just tell us what the fuck is wrong. Passive aggressive behavior can be thrown into this as well.

- Lying. When a woman doesn't have any authenticity, much less stay congruent with what she says or is supposedly going to do.

- Abusive. Doesn't matter if it is physical, emotional and mental. Any woman using this as a way to maintain control the relationship and her spouse/boyfriend, etc, she should be cut loose to fall into the abyss and never seen again.

- Cheating. If at any point she cheated in her life, she is prone to doing it again. Especially if she got into a relationship with the affair partner afterwards. History repeats itself. She cheats on someone with someone else, she will do the same to the man in question.

- Abundance of social media, moreso Instagram, OnlyFans, etc. Multiple platforms for social media and being able to connect with many people. No one needs to have dozens of social media platforms, much less ones notorious for being thirst traps for men to get attention or money through sexually suggestive photos and having that available for everyone under the sun to access. That is a trespassing in the relationship boundaries in my eyes. If she needs attention and validation, much less has to do it in a way that is sexually questionable, it is turn off. She wants to do that single? Fine. In a relationship, hard no.

- Constant need to party or go out.

- Abuser of drugs and being an alcoholic.

- Not wanting kids or at least isn't open to the idea of it.

[Lookingforthetruth]

1. Promiscuity or had a promiscuous past (studies show partner count of women results in less satisfaction in marriage long term)

2. Social media addict

3. Attention whore

4. No domestic house skills (cooking and cleaning)

5. Still friends with her exes or likes to collect male friends for her social media account.

6. Bossy and belittles her partner.

7. Neglectful of partners needs and thinks everything is about her.

8. Has a strain relationship with her father or comes from a household where parents are divorced.

9. Alcoholic

10. Does or previously did recreational drugs

11. Favors the opinion of her friends over that of her spouse.

12. Does not believe in gender dynamics or only wants it one way.

13. Has a kid with another man.

14. Comes into your life at 35+

15. Previously divorced

16. Gold digger or very entitled to a man's time, money and attention.

17. Does not exercise or feel the need to maintain physical fitness.

18. Dyes her hair in unnatural hair colours

19. Has mental disorder that hampers on her ability to maintain stable relationship or predisposes her to cheating.

20. Has previously cheated on a partner in the past or gave into her hypergamy and left them.

21. Allowed you to sleep with her on the first date or lets you have sex with her without a condom.

22. Frequently uses sex as leverage to domesticate you into doing what she wants.

23. She identifies as a modern feminist.

24. She looks up to female figures in society who are straight up hoes.

25. Admitted to having an abortion in the past because she just didn't want to have the baby.

26. Her friends are hoes.

27. Has very large tats on her body or close to her private area.

28. Has unconventional piercings.

29. Has previously engaged in sex work (e. g. escorting, stripping, cam model, onlyfans)

30. If she has a criminal record that includes killing, raping or being pedophile.

31. Prioritizes family/education over having a family or children.

32. Is not at least average level intelligence or someone that you can hold a conversation with.

If a woman has 8 or more of these ticked off, you should be very cautious in putting a ring on her.

[Asker]

I think 8 is a bit unfair but I appreciate your honesty!
Many kids of divorce can't help how their parent's marriage turned out or what type of homes they were born into.

As for strained relationship with fathers, does it not depend on the reason why? For example, I have a friend who's father stopped speaking to her when she was 14 because she refused to dress appropriately (she wore crop tops and denim shorts etc etc)
She's 25 and he still isn't talking to her!
Would you still consider her not wife material?

[Asker]

Other than that, good list! 👍

[Asker]

As for 21, isn't that what most men want? Sex after wining and dining a female?

[Lookingforthetruth]

People often form a template for what they want in the opposite sex based on their relationship with their parent of the opposite sex. Women who generally have a poor relationship with their father go on to have daddy issues and seek validation from men to compensate. In addition, a lot of women hatred for their father may transfer over into how she deals/treat men. In addition, dads in general often are gatekeepers that help filter out unworthy male suitors for their daughters leading to lower track record of failed relationships/build up in sexual partners. With no male figure in place to educate the daughter on what to look out for in dating can also result in women making poor life choices. Granted, if a father did outright abandon the kid, is abusive or in general just an overall piece of shit then its fine to hold resentment towards the biological father.

However, a woman needs to find a father figure in her developmental years (and that person does not have to be blood related) or look towards a healthy relationships in her environment on which to model her choice in men.

As for 21. Most men would love for a girl to be so sexually attracted towards him that she sleeps with him on the first date. However, guys really want for a girl to only do this exclusively for him. Meaning he wants her to break her normal dating rules for him. Other than that most guys are fine with waiting, provided of course she also made other men wait.

The reason this is a warning flag is because guys will be asking, if she did this so easily with me then how many other guys has she done this for. This then leads to associating her to be promiscuous which in turn leads to many guys not considering her LTR material.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm a woman in her 30's who doesn't want to get married or have kids. My reasons are kids are loads of a lifetime responsibilities and as for husbands they are not always bad but they tend to put there needs and wants first which can kinda stand a womana bit. Also I have a passion for painting but I don't make much money from it but I don't depend on anybody no matter how short I run on cash, plus I love cooking, cleaning and doing laundry. And as for what I do for fun I like reading, exercising or watch some sports on TV.

I must be the biggest slut in the world if I dint wanna get married or have kids lol.

Anyways to answer your question the worst quality a female can have in her relationship if she isn't loyal or faithful or just has a really bad attituide.

[Asker]

Nothing slutty about not wanting to be chained down.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO

[jennifer_bloom]

A girl who opposes everything the guy says or wants for no reason other than to be difficult and punitive.

[Guy13]

Another poster started with God and I do too except I define that by Ephesians 5 and its functional demand for BOTH male and female within marriage. Proverbs Wife too.

For me, all the Detailed Itemization of NOT Wifey material is found in Bossy Women verse Genetic Women: --The woman that gets along with family, friends, helpful, great in bed, and etc Dream-Girl can be either. They also share those OCD, balance multiple balls, trousers around the house and other women, and intuition that comes with womanhood. These things are man's inadequacies that tend to make men feel like One Flesh with her... everything I am not and on my side.

So, how does one in dating delineate between the two? "No silly"(you child) I told you I hung those pants there. Don't you remember we organized this that way. Don't worry about it babe... I'll get this part and you take care of Work.

And, like a sticky note in your car, on frig, notes stuck in her place for roommates... all these unstated Rules and Regulations. ALL of it implying that your memory and ability to do, if you remember at all, is lacking and deserving of her constant review..."we work so well together... you focus on your work... it's okay to be late for our 5:15 with your friends and the wives... I've got it and they will understand... if you can't make it at all, it's fine-I'll take care of it :-)

LOVE can stupefy so pay attention !!! If one does not see a problem here then one is prime bait for the OWN all aspects of your life including friends available for you to see, cell phone and car tracking devices, and overall reliance upon her for functioning except in guys specialty WOMAN..."guys were not made the same as women along with pointing out what we are not through his mistakes, stressed out forgetfulness etc.

HAVE A GREAT DAY !!!

[coachTanthony]

---If she has been ran through from a hundred guys, she is masculine, a sheboss, someone who isn't feminine, someone who is bossy and loud, I mean i could go on but my fingers hurt.

[Pinay_ako]

If she doesn’t want to get married

[Fuentes]

That's a good woman

[MCheetah]

DEALBREAKERS:

1. Transgender (males).
The biggest dealbreaker of all. I'm not gay, which means I'm not attracted to anyone who isn't a heterosexual monogamous female. Don't be male.

2. Feminist/woke (far-left).
The biggest personality dealbreaker of all. No man-hating, bitter, negative, angry, complaining women should be tolerated.

3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians).
Self explanatory: If she's queer, then she's a lesbian. If she's a lesbian, why on Earth would I want her? Lesbians are a giant turn-off to me. So, straight women or nothing at all.

4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally.
This is a clear dealbreaker and one I won't tolerate whatsoever, not even red flags or warning signs of it will be tolerated.

5. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful).
These are all basically the same thing: Being promiscuous. I don't want to have anything to do with fast and loose immature women like this who have no loyalty and can't be trusted in a relationship.

6. Promotes lewd content of herself online, including and especially OnlyFans.
The same thing as the one above. These women are unfaithful, selfish, make poor life choices, and can’t ever be trusted.

7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.
These people are mentally ill narcissists and psychopaths. I won’t be tolerating their nonsense.

Human TRASH like this.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

About number 2, not all feminists are bitter or man-hating. About number 7, I’ve met three non-binaries and none were narcissists or psychopaths. The fourth I’ve met on Facebook, but they don’t seem to be them either.

[MrOracle]

Things that make a woman NOT "wife material":

• High body count
• Kids from another man
• Masculine energy/Feminist/"Strong and Independent"
• Loud, opinionated, always has to be right.
• Selfish and self-centered
• Doesn't show respect for her man, doesn't represent him well in public, doesn't defend him in public
• Cheating or even just setting up cheating ("we were just talking...")
• Unwilling or unable (due to age/fertility) to provide children (to men who want children)
• (for many men) Tattoos, face and body piercings, crazy hair colors, short/butch hair
• Uncooperative or negative attitude
• Depression, bipolar, etc., especially if untreated or not taken seriously
• Large debts, especially consumer debt (cars, credit cards, etc.)

I think the majority of men would agree with almost everything on this list - some are okay with tattoos and body mods. Nearly everything on this list is something that she had control over, and started off in good standing on, and had to CHOOSE to change in a negative way.

I'm not out to pick on anyone - I largely have no idea who has what here - I'm just answering the question that was asked.

[Asker]

How high is a high body count?

[MrOracle]

That's age dependent, but here's a relevant stat:

A woman who is a virgin at marriage will report being happy in her marriage 10 years later 80% of the time. Every partner she's had reduces this percentage, and with only 5 partners, the percentage of women reporting being happy in their marriage after 10 years drops to 30%. 10 partners brings the number down to under 20%.

While most people don't know these stats per se, most men can sense that more partners make a girl less likely to stick around, and there is pretty well established reasons for this.

As a rule, women strongly bond with people they have sex with (most women who don't come from a background of abuse - physical, verbal, or sexual). But this pair-bonding gets damaged each time a bond is broken, making the next bond weaker, and as partner count increases, the ability to bond to them is quickly reduced. Hypergamy is linked to this.

[MrOracle]

Women tend to want it all. If they sleep with a guy who is confident, and another guy who is wealthy, and another guy who is very fit, and another guy who has status and connections, and another guy who is extremely handsome, etc., her standards go up and up and up. After the first guy, she wants any guy she gets with to be confident. After the second guy, she wants a guy who is confident and wealthy. After the third guy she wants confident, wealthy, and fit. After the fourth guy, she wants confident, wealthy, fit, and has status. Essentially, she wants (and expects) to be able to collect positive attributes from her past and combine them all into one man - but no real man exists who can satisfy that stack of expectations, and since her bond gets weaker and weaker, it's easier and easier to move on and keep seeking Prince Charming.

This is how women end up alone - they run up their body count AND their expectations, and then they hit 30 and no man on Earth - and certainly no man she can attract, can satisfy her. If she then gets with a man, it's only for his resources, and she'll end up leaving him and use the legal system to strip him of his resources. But then, being even older, finding another man to take her is FAR more difficult, so she starts buying cats or dogs.

[MrOracle]

So, what's a high body count? in my opinion, more than 1 partner per 2 year period starting at age 15.

15-16 = more than 1
17-18 = more than 2
19-20 = more than 3
21-22 = more than 4
etc.

Even this quickly gets you to 5 - which means your chances of a successful marriage PLUMMET, because she's only 30% likely to be happy after 10 years, which means 70% of women are likely to want divorce - and that matches up quite well with the actual divorce rate, which is only a bit less than that.

Given how men get destroyed by divorce due to divorce courts heavily favoring women, can you see why men don't see women with high body counts as wife material? If women were going to lose 50% of her financial resources PLUS alimony PLUS child support in a divorce, and men were only 30% likely to stay with them after 10 years, would women want marriage?

[Asker]

But the older you get the more relationships you commit to, right? So let's say your 20 and you've had more than 3 boyfriends? And you had intercourse with all of them but it was in the context of loving and committed relationships, would that still make her a "hoe"?

[MrOracle]

I didn't say "hoe" anywhere. To me, that's an even higher rate of body count.

I think most men would see a girl who was 28, and had 7 long-term boyfriends, as marriage material. They might think differently if they actually knew that this meant that this woman would only have a 25% chance of being happy in the marriage after 10 years, which meant that she was 60+% likely to divorce him, even if he was a great husband doing everything right.

Feminism has pushed on ALL of us that women having high body counts is fine, and most guys would feel LUCKY to find a girl like the 28-year-old, 7-partner girl - but statistically, even she's a disaster as a marriage partner. The state has made marriage a business partnership, and NO ONE would accept a business partnership with those kind of stats in the business world.

This is why it's always been (and in many places in the world, continues today) important that the woman be a virgin, or at least has a very low body count, at marriage - which also happened at younger ages. It's only been since the 1960s that this *began* to change, and only since the 1980s that the average marriage age - and the average partner count - started to increase significantly. The system we have in the west today is not the norm - it's an exception, and a very recent one. And it's clearly not working.

[MrOracle]

I know this is going to offend some women deeply, and I can't help that. The statistics are what they are, and the outcomes are what they are. If things weren't SO political, then social scientists would have been screaming warnings about this for 30 years already - but things ARE political, and these facts go against the agenda, so they are suppressed. We're all supposed to accept them and ignore the poor outcomes we see around us (and make no mistake: men are responsible for accepting this, and share in the blame).

Relationships between men and women have never been worse, but it's really only starting to hit women hard - women have huge relationship advantages when young, and they don't lose those advantages until their 30s, so it takes a while before the problems become apparent. Many older women are already regretting the "modern woman" path, and that's going to start to vastly increase very soon - but by then, it's far too late. Women need to start teaching the TRUTH to the younger generation of women - not the lie that they were taught by Feminists that has given women short-term gains and long-term destruction (and hurt men greatly too).

[Notcreativenough]

It's more important that you focus on what someone IS instead of what they ARE NOT so I'll see your question and raise you a question. What qualities ARE wifey material? Well, beyond personal, rather shallow, preferences lies a few solid characteristics that will be universally good and helpful in any successful marriage. The ability to communicate comes up a lot but paired with the ability to say how you feel is the useful ability to recieve information subjectvely and in a benefit-of-the-doubt tone, this will carry anyone a long way when things get dicey. A good health conscious mind is an asset and contributes to positive a self image that helps ward off personal jealousy and insecurities. Political and religious partisanship isn't as important as the ability to remain open minded on topics that count, in the tribalistic era we've found ourselves in someone that doesn't lean too heavily in one direction is a noble quality that is telling of other positive traits about them. I hope this helps.

[Asker]

If I asked what someone IS, the answers would have been way too predictable... and I think we need some originality here on gag and not the same old questions being asked over and over again.

[Qdbrown]

First and foremost, she should excite you when you're near her. If you're settling, don't marry.

That said, if you want long-term wife, and not a starter wife, find a woman withoit a big notch count. The more guys, the more sex is like a handshake to her. She will have so little loyalty if she has been ran through. Also never marry up a sex worker, or even an OnlyFans girl. Let the idiots marry the high-risk girls.

Avoid girls who drink and smoke too much.

Date to see if you can spot any DSM-5 mental issues, and look for prescription medication. Don't assume that can be medicated for ever. She will come off at times.

Watch how she treats others. Keep in mind your're looking for compassionate and nurturing woman. Not a boss chick, anti-men, mean feminist or nutjob that will negate any of her mother duties. That includes high ambition for a career over family. Big high-paying jobs sound great, and money in the bank, but every decision to be away from your family is a compromise and sacifrice to your future children. So you want strangers raising them, or seeing what bad influences come around later to send them down the wrong path? At least one parent needs to be home while the kids are school age, and her job should be during school hours. Unless you want that role and hope she doesn't marry up later on, once she loses respect for you.

There are no gaurantees. A good woman can go bad overnight.

[BJP21]

Mentally or Emotionally abusive with no filter (This should show up when your dating)

Intellectually Inept

Man Hater (Being a feminist is ok, not hating on the gender)

Can't solve problems

Hates Pets (Different than not wanting them)

Socially Awkward

Not a celebrator of Holidays/Birthdays or Special Occasions

Unwilling to participate in an event (won't dance or engage a dance)

Hates on Kids (Im not talking about not wanting them)

doesn't respect hobbies or desires.

Not sarcastic or have a sense of humor.(Being thick skinned is important even if Im not around)

Insecure/Not confident

Cognitive Dissonance pertaining to religion. (I don't want to see or hear hate come from your mouth and then call yourself a christian)

Overly needy (should be able to spot this dating)

Unsupportive of Emotional Needs (This goes both ways)

Hates Sex/Uncomfortable with it.

Disrespectful to familiy

Family hater (I want to be able to have some level of family to visit in this context)

Not Physically fit (Not a couch potato)/It will help me be fit by having a gym buddy.

[DoctorSex]

These are all personal preferences. Each has been well thought through and I can give a dissertation on each.

A body count.

A modern western mindset.

A woman who makes above 23k.

Fake hair.

Thirst traps/sexy pictures.

Men on her social media friends list beyond those she went to primary school with.

Extroverted/Assertive.

Above 25.

Has Childeren.

Excessive weight. If the stomach isn't flat basically.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Chelsdope0]

Above 25? Makes 23k?

[DoctorSex]

@Chelsdope0 my own personal preference. Yes

[MJ239]

These are things I've dealt with in regards to women I won't date who I assumed had a good head on their shoulder because these are things they've done to me, or my friends...

IF she's flashed Rockstar's at a concert, fucks whoever, and whatever she wants even if they're homeless, is a stripper, demands money above everything, not feminine, not physically attractive, if she's not fertile, if she's not kind, if she's basically slept with an entire college hockey team, I've noticed too many female narcissists, too many look for re-affirmation on dating sites and just use their time to laugh at men and determining who they can fuck over next, they shouldn't have an onlyfans account making six figures every month and pretend that they're broke and unwanted, they cheat, lie, steal even after making $200K a month or farting into jars. etc...

[hahahmm]

You need to be very trustworthy, loyal and to show respect to the man. In other words, don't do what 80% of your female friends and women you see in the media do. In fact, if your female friend is a cheating slut, dump her. She is only going to encourage you to become what she is: unworthy.

It's retarded for a woman to be in a long term relationship with a guy who doesn't have the same qualities I listed. And I'd even say that IF you want to get married you'd be foolish to spend a lot of years waiting for a ring. You need to have the talk with the guy and ask what he requires. It's like winning a race. There are requirements. You can run sideways on the race track all day long but you're not getting the ring if you never cross the finish line!

[hahahmm]

And unless the guy is really young, guys don't think of marriage first. It's on you to put the idea in his head. It's the reverse from what usually happens with sex where the dude thought of it 20 days before you even knew who he was.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm going to guess the village bicycle where everybody has gotten a ride will be top of the list. With each sexual partner, a female's ability to pair bond, to begin with, goes down. They're not mentally designed like men to mentally turn it off when they find someone that makes them happy. I could go onto list other reasons, but I notice those other reasons can usually all be tied into this reason. Either they caused this reason or they're the result of this reason.

I forget the numbers, but I think I remember that it takes only a body count of 8 to reduce the chances of holding a relationship for any amount of time down to 20%. Age will play a factor as well, which will further reduce that. The numbers are out there... it's findable if you want to seek it out.

[HighValue]

Has liberal morals. (Promiscuous, drugs, lots of alcohol, supports BLM, thinks people should get benefits based on race/gender instead of merit)

If she is unfair (thinks I should work full time and provide everything, but she doesn't want to do the stuff at home.) If she wants to split the chores at home 50/50 then she needs to work full time and contribute financially just as much as I do.

Won't sign a prenuptial agreement.

Has an unacceptable past.

Doesn't want kids.

Has kids from a past relationship.

Tattoos.

Doesn't initiate affection/intimacy ever.

Thinks special occasions/holidays are just for her.

Is in contact with an ex.

[HighValue]

Oh and add past 30 for beginning a relationship. That makes her not wife/LTR material.

[bamesjond0069]

Fat

Premarital sex past

Atheist

Won't sign an ironclad prenuptial

Can't or won't cook

Can't or won't clean

Too old to have kids easily, readily and on a relaxed time table.

If even one of those things are true personally there is no way I'd ever consider even a serious relationship tbh. And here in America due to the laws and my risks and rewards it makes no sense to marry short of a perfect 10 virgin... because all other options are readily available at no cost. So... just common sense.

[MikeInHawaii]

A Perfect 10 virgin is covered under the Endangered Species Act.

[bamesjond0069]

@MikeInHawaii lmfao exactly.

[77five]

So are you also a virgin? And you're 35, if you want a woman who can have kids “easily” that isn't too much younger than you, you need to act fast

[bamesjond0069]

@77five why does it matter if I'm a Virgin? I'm not a woman. And that is why my girlfriend is 20. She has plenty of time.

[77five]

It matters that you're a virgin if you require your partner to be. And she's 20? 🤢🤮 Im not surprised though. I don't know how men can tolerate such young girls. I couldnt date a 20 yr old at 23 right now

[bamesjond0069]

@77five "It matters that you're a virgin if you require your partner to be." So if you expect a man who is well off and tall, you therefore must also be well off and tall? So if you're a short waitress you must date short men in food service. LMAO. This is nonsense. Attraction is based on differences. Otherwise everyone would be more like non gendered and everything would be equal. This is entirely not what dating, romance, or relationships are like.

thats because your a woman, no shit you wouldn't find a younger man attractive. smh. For men it works opposite. No shit men aren't trying to get with older women.

[77five]

You can get with a younger woman but it doesn't need to be the youngest age possible. Thats what men seem to do. A good age for you if you insist on the fertility bs is about 27. The virginity and age thing is about power. there's a huge power imbalance when you're 15 years older WITH way more sexual experience. Thats the issue.

[bamesjond0069]

@77five You would have to provide evidence why a power imbalance is bad. I won't just accept a completely unsubstantiated claim like that.

Virginity is about marketplace. If a woman is not a virgin, she can be had for free. Therefore why would anyone except a moron pay a huge price for something thats free? Also chance of divorce rises substantially based on a womans body count. Its practical. I am well off, i have a high risk for marriage if it leads to divorce. The reward is? what? I have no idea what the reward is if I can have sex with her without marriage, what do i get for marriage? Nothing?

[bamesjond0069]

Point is, no matter what age a man is, there is no reason to MARRY a woman who isn't a virgin. He could just be with her unmarried.

[77five]

Men who think like you always prove to be extremely misogynistic Andrew Tate types of dudes. You talk about women like were fucking cars! And a power imbalance is bad because it gives you control over the less powerful party. she's 20 and still figuring herself out. You have the power to greatly influence how she turns out to be and based on what you said, thats not good. Men cheat way more than women and that along with financial difficulties is why divorces happen. she's super impressionable compared to you. But if course you like that. Had I hated who I wanted to at 19/20, if have had like 5 kids, stayed home and done whatever he said (he was in his 30s). Thats scary to think about now.

The brain doesn't fully develop until 25. Im not there yet but im aware kf way more now than I did at 20. 20 yr old me would have rolled my eyes at what Im currently saying.

But once again, all of this is what you want in a girl. So of course you won't see it as bad. You think men are above women and it shows. Really no point in going further. Guys like you aren't capable of truly being in love with a woman.

[bamesjond0069]

@77five "Men who think like you always prove to be extremely misogynistic Andrew Tate types of dudes. You talk about women like were fucking cars!" And? I don't agree thats a bad thing, neither do women.

If women didn't like being talked about as if they were fucking cars., why do they prefer men who talk about them like fucking cars? Especially most of the more attractive and dateable ones? Just saying.

[77five]

Yea…. you're trash.

[bamesjond0069]

@77five wow what a well reasoned argument. See, yet another example of how men are far more intellectually superior. Thanks for proving my point.

[77five]

You…you just said there's nothing wrong with comparing women to cars…. you're not someone who can be talked to. Thats it. Have a nice day 👋

[bamesjond0069]

@77five Why do you hate women so much? Don't you respect women who think car comparisons are accurate? Maybe you just can't stand a woman who thinks on her own instead of spouting feminazi talking points from the TV. Plenty of women think car comparisons are accurate and you say "you're trash... ... you're not someone who can be talked to" to them. What a misogynist!

[Asker]

Why put so much value on virginity?

[A_Bell]

"Men cheat way more than women."

That's interesting. Who are they cheating with? Men don't cheat in a vaccuum, each one has to do it with one of us and it's not just the handful of single women.

[MikeInHawaii]

@A_Bell exactly. Tiger would supposedly cheated with 120 women. Elvis with thousands. John Kennedy and Bill Clinton probably had four digit body counts. These were all public figures. Were any of these women unaware that they were married.

[bamesjond0069]

Asker: "Why put so much value on virginity?"

Because it's the ONLY benefit men can get from marriage. There are no other benefits.

[Asker]

What about children? Or stability? Or a life long companion? A home (someone to come home to)?

[MikeInHawaii]

You asked what qualifies a woman as NOT wife material.

[bamesjond0069]

Asker: last I checked men can and do have children with women they aren't married to. For women it's stability since it's hard for a man to leave his financial obligation. Women have no obligation to a man. So there is no additional stability for men that comes from marriage.

[A_Bell]

I'm standing right here, you know.

[MikeInHawaii]

@77five I don’t know about a power imbalance with age. I’ve had four year old cousin who seem totally capable of wrapping me around their little fingers.

[Dee_smooth22]

Women hate when you tell them they're not wife material. So they try to promote slut shaming to do what they want and still get married but...

Obviously

1. Too many previous and current sex partners... Having too many previous sex partners is really subjective and up to each man whether he chooses to forgive that. But if you're currently messing around you looks easy.

2. Cheating... Not breaking up before entertaining other men an actually having sex and dating while in a relationship. Flirting with other men behind your man's back when he isn't around.

3. Terrible qualities... You're mean to people, start and love drama, don't seek to make amends, use people, betray them, steal, etc...

4. Terrible behavior... Fighting, stealing, scamming

[Paulalove98]

A woman who is disrespectful, Immature, unfaithful,& abusive is definitely not a wife material at least that's what id believe turn lots of guys heads away from marrying her. My qualities are loving, kind, loyal, affectionate, funny, sincere, honest,&caring.

[SpaceGalaxy]

1- if she farts in public or during sex

2- if she has stinky feet after removing her shoes

3- if she has bad breath even after rinsing her mouth

4- if she has skid marks inside her worn panties

5- if she has facial hair

6- if she has hair on her legs

7- if she has big muscles

8- if she has the words of rap songs memorized

9- if she forgets to lick balls during oral

10- if she DOES NOT think Megan Fox is the prettiest woman alive

That's it.

[MikeInHawaii]

#8…I remember cringing at a friend’s 12-year-old sister singing along to “Baby Got Back” on MTV!
I also see reels on Instagram of teenage or preteen girls singing and dancing to vulgar rap lyrics. It’s worse when I click on the account and it says “managed by parent!”

[SpaceGalaxy]

@MikeInHawaii i hear you! Jokes aside, it is so sad!

[Olalaa4]

If I would be guy my answers would be:

Has many body counts

Drinks a lot alcohol and smokes

Doesn't want kids

Cares her social media more than her life

Follows stupid popular culture

Racist

Lack of affectionate

Doeant have respect

Cares career and money more than family

Ps: Some of these features aren't bad features but I think these aren't traditional wife material features neither.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Doesn't fear God nor loves the lord Jesus Christ.

#2: She's stupid. I don't mean education wise.

#3: Liar.

#4: Rude.

#5: Sleeps around.

#6: Abuses alcohol or drugs.

#7: Not willing to submit to husband (assuming the man is good.)

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I agree with numbers 1 to 6, why submit to husband? It’s good if she’d have a good relationship with him, but I believe one should submit to G-d ONLY. Do We have the same definition of submit?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@HippieVeganJewslim: Its in reference to leadership of the household.

Every institution has leadership, the household is no different.

The man leads the woman into the ways of the lord Jesus Christ and the Bible unto the glory of God.

[MikeInHawaii]

Lying.

Cheating.

Promiscuity.

Smoking

Drinking, drug abuse (which almost always goes hand-in-hand with promiscuity)

Excessive emotional baggage

Spendthrift

Likes status symbols

Expects the moon and stars out of men with few standards for herself

Won’t sign a prenup, especially with a large disparity in assets or income.

I’ll probably never get married and I’m okay with that.

[SEL195]

Nice this was my list for my future husband too. If he has any of these then it is a no from me

[Jamie05rhs]

Wait- what's wrong with being a spendthrift? Lol. That's a good thing!

[MikeInHawaii]

@Jamie05rhs spending money frivolously? A thrifty spender is good, a spendthrift is bad!

[Jamie05rhs]

@MikeInHawaii Wait- what's a spendthrift, then? I'm confused.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow!! I just looked up the definition. That makes absolutely zero sense! It's completely backwards!

[MikeInHawaii]

@Jamie05rhs why do you drive on a parkway and park in a driveway? Why is driving without a wreck hood and reckless driving bad? Why did I get in trouble in school for being smart with my teachers? The English language makes no sense!

[Jamie05rhs]

@MikeInHawaii TOUCHÉ!! All very good points, sir!! 😂