for me girlfriend and wife are synonymous, casual dating is a waste of emotions and time. what makes a specific girl wife material for me is that she should be intelligent (book wise and street smarts), have a sense of humor, caring, funny, blah blah... the most important are that she should have a degree or a decent career path that enables her to have strong job security. whether or not she wants children isn't really important to me at the moment but its something i think she should be prepared for.
as i write this it seems that when thinking about what qualities you want in a partner, you can really really get specific, like what does it mean to be caring? what is too much or too little? with all things concidered there should be some form of wiggle room.
Not promiscuous is the number one factor and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Every man since the dawn of time has known that a virgin makes the best wife
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I would say are the parents still together for the couple? If the parent’s are divorced on one side and not the other, run. Same deal if both parents are divorced. Marrying someone from a broken home or even a relationship is a bad idea. It will never work out because they’ve already seen their parents fail so chances are subconsciously copy the same behaviour.
She has to be ready for what marriage is.
She has to be mature, responsible, hard-working. She has to be level-headed, smart, rational, strong-willed, and self-confident.
She has to be honest, upfront, and trustworthy.
She needs to hold the same values that I hold.
She has to be COMMITTED.
I'd also love for her to have freckles.
There's three things guys look for.
1) physical attractiveness
2) sexual compatibility
3) compatible personality
What these look like depends on the particular guy.
If she can check all three boxes though, then I say marry that hoe. Otherwise ehhhhhhhhhh maybe not.
For me girlfriend is the wife but should be qualified, truth, trust, love, living life, partner to travel and walk around with, food... etc and a lot wich that means find yourself in !
She has to enjoy my cooking. I love my girlfriend but I can't marry her because she is too picky to appreciate my worldly tastes. (All she eats is spaghetti)
She needs to be kind, sweet, patient, and not a slut.
First I want someone goal/career oriented. Don't really care what their goals are but I want someone with some drive. I want someone stable. I don't want someone who has either had 20 different jobs or 20 different penises. NO ADDICTION ISSUES.
When they can hold down the castle while I'm away/at work. and when they actually care about all your personal issues and want to help.
Honesty, open to new ideas, wanting to please me, supports me, good looking in my eyes.
Non shallow personality, and down to earth and confess her feelings.
To me for a woman to be wife material, she has to be ready for marriage.
Just someone who is confident in themselves, humble, trustworthy, and supportive. The rest really depends on the husband
Yes, she wants children more than anything, including herself.
But even that is risky because divorce is a thing. So you can invest emotionally in being a parent and then she can just decide you're not worth being a father.
personality sexual and physical comatibilty and real love
Someone who gets me and enjoys my company as much as I do there's. And maybe they share the same desires as I.
I think if she also loves being shared by u and other guys Secretively though is wifey material something about gangbangs and swingers
Trust, insight and compromise. From both people.
No flirt * makes a wifey material.
Depends on what type of guy he is
I prefer the term waifu. But I'm too fat to care.
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