What makes someone girlfriend/wife material?

[Anonymous]

What are the qualities guys are looking in for a girl, and does it change depending on if they want a girlfriend for a wife?

[jokery56]

for me girlfriend and wife are synonymous, casual dating is a waste of emotions and time. what makes a specific girl wife material for me is that she should be intelligent (book wise and street smarts), have a sense of humor, caring, funny, blah blah... the most important are that she should have a degree or a decent career path that enables her to have strong job security. whether or not she wants children isn't really important to me at the moment but its something i think she should be prepared for.
as i write this it seems that when thinking about what qualities you want in a partner, you can really really get specific, like what does it mean to be caring? what is too much or too little? with all things concidered there should be some form of wiggle room.

[Goochbreaker]

Not promiscuous is the number one factor and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Every man since the dawn of time has known that a virgin makes the best wife

[Asker]

Thanks for leaving an opinion!! But won't he get annoyed if she's inexperienced in bed? I want to have the ability to please my future husband

[Goochbreaker]

Why in the fk would he get annoyed? Please, withdraw yourself from this shallow worldview. What would be more romantic and amazing than learning how to make love with your true love? Why would you want to be the benefit of some techniques she's been taught by other men? You in a way are making love with those other men LOL fresh is best. Any guy that wants an experienced woman is in the wrong frame of mind for a healthy relationship.

No, if he get's annoyed, you do not want that guy. The vast majority of guys looking for long term would not get annoyed by that, they'd be happy to guide you and delighted that you are learning from them and not someone else. I really hope women aren't going around thinking they need experience because all they are doing is decreasing their chances of one day ending up in a long term relationship.

[Asker]

Thank you! I appreciate that you time out of your day to write this! I will remember what you have said!! :)

[Goochbreaker]

And thank you for being able to appreciate it, I hope it helps you

[kbbroiler]

I would say are the parents still together for the couple? If the parent’s are divorced on one side and not the other, run. Same deal if both parents are divorced. Marrying someone from a broken home or even a relationship is a bad idea. It will never work out because they’ve already seen their parents fail so chances are subconsciously copy the same behaviour.

[BrianMerritt]

She has to be ready for what marriage is.
She has to be mature, responsible, hard-working. She has to be level-headed, smart, rational, strong-willed, and self-confident.
She has to be honest, upfront, and trustworthy.
She needs to hold the same values that I hold.
She has to be COMMITTED.
I'd also love for her to have freckles.

[JSmuve]

There's three things guys look for.
1) physical attractiveness
2) sexual compatibility
3) compatible personality

What these look like depends on the particular guy.

If she can check all three boxes though, then I say marry that hoe. Otherwise ehhhhhhhhhh maybe not.

[Ouailir-Abidson]

For me girlfriend is the wife but should be qualified, truth, trust, love, living life, partner to travel and walk around with, food... etc and a lot wich that means find yourself in !

[okazakifragment]

She has to enjoy my cooking. I love my girlfriend but I can't marry her because she is too picky to appreciate my worldly tastes. (All she eats is spaghetti)

[Schnitzel]

I actually made my wife cry one time I cooked, I'm not talking chili or onions, it was pure disappointment.

[okazakifragment]

Wow, maybe you should just start with something simple like fried eggs

[Schnitzel]

Oh I can cook loads of great food, I just found the reason you gave for not marrying a bit weak and arrogant.

[okazakifragment]

(it wasn't intended to be serious, sorry if my joke didn't come off properly over text)

[NoOneIsKillingMe]

She needs to be kind, sweet, patient, and not a slut.

[YOUTOOSHOULDJUDGE]

First I want someone goal/career oriented. Don't really care what their goals are but I want someone with some drive. I want someone stable. I don't want someone who has either had 20 different jobs or 20 different penises. NO ADDICTION ISSUES.

[bibi3pu]

Yes, she wants children more than anything, including herself.

But even that is risky because divorce is a thing. So you can invest emotionally in being a parent and then she can just decide you're not worth being a father.

[That2kKid21]

When they can hold down the castle while I'm away/at work. and when they actually care about all your personal issues and want to help.

[Rick912]

Honesty, open to new ideas, wanting to please me, supports me, good looking in my eyes.

[TallGuy96]

Non shallow personality, and down to earth and confess her feelings.

[Rosewanda]

To me for a woman to be wife material, she has to be ready for marriage.

[Baratara12]

Just someone who is confident in themselves, humble, trustworthy, and supportive. The rest really depends on the husband

[Anonymous]

Someone who gets me and enjoys my company as much as I do there's. And maybe they share the same desires as I.

[mactallica]

personality sexual and physical comatibilty and real love

[Dre495]

I think if she also loves being shared by u and other guys Secretively though is wifey material something about gangbangs and swingers

[muteant]

Trust, insight and compromise. From both people.

[legendaryintrovert]

No flirt * makes a wifey material.

[Asker]

what about if she flirts with you?

[legendaryintrovert]

I will kill myself if she wishes it. Or else I will live my life for my goal and for earth.

[Retief]

Depends on what type of guy he is

[myassisgrass]

I prefer the term waifu. But I'm too fat to care.

[Anonymous]

Non feminist. Non lazy af.

[9inchses]

thee is no such ting as wife metiral!!!