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For me it´s mostly her attitude like if I get to realise that she´s only for the brownie points in a relationship like date nights and prefers to spend more time with her friends but without me. That´s not going work long because I wouldn´t want to married just to have a marital status but be unhappy all the time.
So for me it´s crucial than we get to build up a so called team mentality where we help each other because we want to and see the need to also without being asked to.
If she is selfish , and disrespectful , only thinks about herself, doesn’t wear her partners shoes like she expects him to wear hers , doesn’t make her man her priority , chooses everyone else over him , sadly most girls hav these traits and wonder why they are single ,
Uncooperative, argumentative, yells a lot, unsupportive, selfish, emotionally unavailable, drama queen, lazy, overly dependent, needy, can't cook or clean, substance abuse issues, serious mental health issues, unkempt hygiene, poor communicator, unfriendly, doesn't take her health seriously, disagreeable, overweight.
Almost same qualities that makes a man not husband material.
Consistent laziness.
Slob.
Consistent selfishness.
Being a non-contributor.
Having no stable income (sorry, this is important for me).
And the likes.
She's a communist
She's a SJW/Feminist
Multiple baby dads
History of DV with too many men
Felonious Criminal record
She smokes
Lives in a bubble
Seem's to not carry a brain
Has racist parents or family members
Has any type of sex work history
Well maybe you wouldn't have that problem if you guys your age group dated beautiful 28 and over year old beautiful woman. But no you men want young useless young woman that can't cook or clean.
@Alwayreckles93 sounds like a personal problem
Oh personal problem? How? This chick has no idea how to clean, cook I bet her parents still pay for her phone bill.
Fuentes I don't understand why are you comment on this spoiled brat. When theirs beautiful 30 year old woman to comment on.
@Alwayreckles93 phone bills aren't that expensive
@Alwayreckles93 I'll comment anywhere I please
Fuentes okay my point is that younger woman aren't good wife material.
Fuentes you don't need a spoiled brat as a girlfriend. I mean seriously? Why? Every guy your age I encountered are all obsessed with young woman. Why?
@Alwayreckles93 my dating range is 23 - 32 for an actual partner. Once a women surpasses 35 her pregnancies become high risk & she's most likely been married before with baggage from another relationship if still single therefore that's unattractive & makes women in their 20's better.
Woman in their 20's better? Yeah rights most woman in their 20's don't even own a car much less a house! Chances are younger woman will be working as a cashier or waitress. I don't understand you men seriously. What do you see in these clowns goofy young woman?
@Alwayreckles93 men don't really care about a woman's career lol
Fuentes okay so if you men do not care if a woman has a career then later don't complain if your dating a gold digger because that's what young woman are gold diggers.
@Alwayreckles93 not all women are like that
Fuentes what planet are you living in? Yes younger woman are gold diggers !
@Alwayreckles93 you don't got no proof that every young woman is a gold digger at all lolol you act like that's a fact.
Fuentes oh please a woman your age acts more reasonable make more money then a 23 year old! I don't get you guys. So you would rather date a 23 year old cashier instead of a 30 year old lawyer woman?
@Alwayreckles93 yes I would I would date a women who works at McDonald's.
Fuentes Seriously even if she makes less money then you? I mean does it even concern you that a McDonald's employee can be a gold digger?
@Alwayreckles93 what does her making less have to do lol and how is she gold digging I ain't getting married without a prenuptial agreement un a state that upholds prenups
Depends on the man and what he is comfortable or will put up with. I can't put this in words. I'm not married and at 64 have no plans to ever do so. If I were looking for a wife I will trust my gut feeling about her. I start to see red flags I am out of there.
Shallow fake people
Dishonest and untrustworthy people
Manipulative shady people
Hot head that just screams all the time
Flirty slutty lazy and never shuts up
A person that won't take responsibility for they're own actions
Someone that always points the finger
Cheating, sexting, lying big or small
Always trying to play victim
Self proclaimed bad bitches
Won't give or receive oral
Has only guy friends
Always mad or bitter about something
Here is what immediately make me break up with a girl cause I see no future with her:
1. Doesn't want kids. Don't care if she wants to adopt instead of give birth, but I want kids.
2. Is physically unhealthy. Uncontrollable medical issues, such as athsma or cancer, are mostly excluded.
3. Doesn't have a goal in life. I don't care if you want to be a CEO or a stay at home mom. Just have a goal and kick ass at it.
4. Don't be mentally broken/unstable. Too much for me to handle.
Someone that has a tendency to cheat. Otherwise I guess it's all up to each and their own.
I don't want to get married, in general, so there's not really any qualities that matters to me regarding marriage. People have different things that they are ok with and not ok with.
A man contemplating marriage to ANY woman is contemplating self-destruction although he may not know it at the time. Marriage is giving a woman permission to take all your money and property and any child you might have, and ruin your life. Don't do this!
If she is a feminist it is an automatic no go.
If she does not cook and clean and make sandwiches.
Is she has hairy legs and/or armpits.
If she refuses to call me any of the following:
daddy
my king
papi chulo.
master
If she has crazy colored hair
If she has piercings
If she talks too much
Anyways I could go on but I have shit to do.
Ignorance is the first thing, so for an American girl, if she was a trumper she's brain dead in my book (note that I didn't say "Republican", I said trumper).
If she's lazy, unmotivated, has no worthwhile aspirations, doesn't take care of body, soul or spirit, if she's rude to anyone especially in the hospitality industry, and if she's a negative cloud in the universe - I'd have no use for her.
- Obsessed with money
- Hoarder
- Obsessed with babies
- Obsessed with social "rank"
- Party girl
- Drugs
- Obsessed with soap operas
- Refuses to contribute to the greater good of the family, whether it be monetary, effort, etc.
- Bossy
- Demanding
- Uneducated and refuses to do so
- Ignorant
The list goes on and on...
If she is not any of the Abrahamic faiths, if she’s not compassionate towards animals, if she lies to me too much, if she’s not nice, if she’s not willing to obey the commandments, if she’s actually a male, if she’s already married, or if she’s not wanting to marry me, I ain’t marrying Her.
1) She's a feminist. That's a 100% show stopper
2) She's woke / SJW / leftist in her politics
3) She has a promiscuous past
4) She doesn't love and want kids
5) She's prioritizes her career ambitions ahead of her family goals
6) She's more interested in being "equal" than she is in just being happy
I will be completely honest. Woman ages 28 and over we are way better wife material. A 30 Year old men has no business in dating stupid 21 year old young woman. Let's be real honest with you. A woman your age group aren't good wife material. Plus a beautiful 30,40 year old woman can look way more younger fitter and better looking then a woman your age.
I don't agree that and I think you sound like a bitter and spiteful woman.
A 21 year old is just as capable as a 29 year old of being a good wife. There really is not that such of an age difference and besides age is not an indicator of anything and that includes maturity!
It depends on their upbringing
Some of us were raised to take care of our households, to look after the siblings, cook, clean, take care of certain responsibilities because our elderly parents were unable to carry out their duties.
We learnt to become independent from a young age and we carried it into our adult years.
So I don't know what your getting at but I think it depends on the woman.
As for looks? I really don't know why that's important for you to point out. Im sure there are beautiful 40+ year olds out there. But their beauty has nothing to do with their age! A woman is beautiful regardless of whether she's middle aged or a teenager!
But there's a reason why you've put "21 years old" as your given age rather than put your real one. Embrace your age and wisdom and please age gracefully and not begrudgingly.
Sweetheart Im actually 29 and I always get compliments by people that I look 18 . People always tell me I look 18. I don't agree with you. Your generation of woman are a bunch of useless spoiled entitled brats that must of people my generation millennials we have to changed your daipers as the older siblings.
As a guy, I disagree. Younger all the way. Likely to have less of a sexual history, younger looking, more fertile, less issues usually.
Yes, I guessed you were 29!
Still trying to figure how why you've put 21 years old as your age seeing as you hold so much resentment for them.
Holding on to your youth?
Or are you just delusional?
You can't generalise a whole generation. Its ridiculous.
Im sure the generation before you would have had something to say about 1993ers and the way you all turned out.
Envy is not a good look, honey. Just saying.
@YakubDavid I seriously can not understand, I mean wouldn't you want to marry a beautiful 30 year old woman. You know she has good credit owns a house knows how to cook home fresh meals for you and keep a clean home? You are my age well almost I am 29 I really don't understand what gone into inside guys your age heads in wanting to date younger woman instead of successful woman your age.
@YakubDavid I mean seriously do you want a younger woman that she will only used you as a ATM gold digger?
Asker I don't envy you nothing Little girl. I could get a 25 year old men if I wanted to.
Oh I still look young.
@Alwaysreckles93 No one goes into a relationship, knowing the woman is a gold digger. A 30 year old could also be a gold digger. I'm not trying to insult you personally nor any woman over 30. But the majority of guys who are successful, prefer a woman who is virgin (or close), fertile, submissive (not a slave), intelligent, feminine and caring for long term relationships. We don't care about how successful you are. That's why you see rich guys marrying nurses and waitresses even. Women often do not do the same. They marry equal or up in terms of wealth and status. What men generally care for is the above things. I'm just being real. I'm working my ass off to be desirable. So the women I want to attract, should be the quality I work for. Simple.
I really don't know why you've bothered to answer my question. In fact you didn't even answer it. You went on an ageist rant instead. Honestly sort out your personal issues, woman. Bitterness is a not an attractive look, no matter what age you are.
Honestly women like you scare the shit out of me. Your what i aim NOT to be in old age.
Why do you perceive younger girls as a threat?
@YakubDavid Oh I am not taking your comments personally. I am just trying to give you good advice. I don't woman my own age are more responsible. No we are not gold diggers. Have you not seen younger woman now a days they can't stay in a stable relationship they bounce from dude to dude they all have sugar daddies or mommy and daddy pay for their bills. Woman are age group no we were raise to have jobs work out ass off. Just because a woman is 30 and single that does not mean she is a whore. Now a days younger woman are whores they might even have aids. I wish you could open your eyes that you deserve way better jewel then a younger woman they are all trash. Why isn't not important to you the financial Status of a successful matter woman?
@Alwaysreckles93 Okay. Can I message you personally? There is a question I want to ask you.
Asker your a Karen!
@YakubDavid Sure
@yakubdavid so you basically only care about how the woman looks and her youth? You don’t care if younger women are more likely to cheat than an old woman is? I understand if you’re just trying to have a bunch of kids, then you would want someone 30 and under. But older women are most likely not going to play games with you and they will be good to you. So what will you do when that same young woman turns 35? She’s no good to you anymore?
And you're a troll!
@mmlover Yes exactly I agree with you thank you. Yes you are absolutely correct younger woman are more likely to be gold diggers and cheaters. While mature woman have life established and all together. I just spoke with a user Fuentes same answer like this clown.
Asker oh I'm the troll lol says the one that post an anonymous question. Which makes you a coward. I am not afraid to speak the truth.
In my experience it simply depends on the woman.
An older woman can get more mature and easygoing, but other women just get bitter.
I mean for someone who claims she can "get any 25 year old if she wanted to" you sure are putting a lot of time and energy into proving and selling your worth to all of the men on here.
Let's be real. I have more financial stability and more to offer to a guy. You probably in college not sure probably what career path you want.
I suspect it is better for the woman to have children early, then make a career.
If you have children early, later when you are 40-45 you have time for a career for a bunch of years.
I disagree. Younger generally comes with fewer problems and a shorter history. And older makes it harder to have kids which, if we’re being honest, it the primary reason for most men to pursue women these days.
1. rudeness
2. rasicm, classism , or any form of looking down on people
3. Poltical extremism , both the far right and far left are equally annoying
4. clinginess.
5. lack of respect of privacy
6. Some one who doesn't communicate their needs and expects you to read their minds.
Being a bitch, lying, always causing drama, arguing a lot, complaining, being negative, giving out insults, being a poor listener, being narcissistic, having mental illness, being addicted to substances, and having bad morals.
If she is feminist. Leftist. Democrat..
If she has a criminal record..
If she is or ever was a sex worker.
If she has multiple children by multiple dads
If she is a single mom
If she is not feminine, or is overly masculine.
If she has a high body count. (over 10 as mine is less than 10)
If she is a land whale (for example 5 foot 6 and over 200 pounds)
If she is domineering or naggy.
And finally if she is not biologically female. As in born with a vagina, uterus, and ovaries. If you weren't born with 2 x chromosomes stay the fuck away from me.
Also if she uses drugs, smokes, or is an alcoholic. Screw that.
You would be lucky to find a girl who isn't over 10 by the time they are age 25.
@Lookingforthetruth I am my wife's second. She actually meets all of my requirements. she's a small down conservative girl
@Lookingforthetruth We met when i was 29 and she was 20.. we married when i was 31 and she was 22.
You being your wife second may not actually be true. It might be just something she told you.
A lot of girls lie and give a number less than 5 if they find a guy they want long term commitment from. They do this because they know how important their sex count is to guys.
Dude if you knew my wife you'd realize how stupid that statement is.. My wife has aspergers.. She doesn't lie. You can disagree all you like but until you know someone who is autistic for as long as I have you have no room to talk..
In other words you should stop talking out of your ass.
nagging, diva complex, shallow, materialistic, narcissist, poor sense of humour, no interests/passion
Well then how about men your age start realizing that woman ages 28 and over we are better more estable career own a house and more mature unlike stupid younger woman.