I’m 21f and this new guy is 23M and recently we started chatting because I had him on social media and he decided to start convo with me, I’m interested in him I think he’s a cool guy and would like to see where it goes. Problem is a couple months ago like around march I downloaded a dating app to meet new people. I matched with this guy who’s 25M and it was causal talk I wasn’t flirting with him cause I didn’t know how I felt yet. Him and I have each other on snap and we don’t talk at all sometimes he will swipe on my story and send me heart eyes to which I reply thank you! Because I’m not rude and it’s a compliment. About a month ago 25M asked me to go to the movies with him and I told him I didn’t want to go and sorry and he said it was fine. So point is me and 25M never hung out or nothing. Well 23M since I have his socials I was looking at his pictures and just my luck I see one of him with 25M 🤦🏻♀️ so I investigate and I’m like are they friends or? Kept looking it seems that they are most likely close cousins😭. I wonder if this goes forward would he feel some type of way and stop talking to me because of it. I don’t want to bring it up cause we barely started talking and I don’t want him to know I was looking on his page. If you were him and in that situation would you cut me off? I personally wouldn’t have a problem with it cause I never hung out with the guy but again I’m not a guy and I don't know how guy code works.
I don't know what makes you think they are cousins but girls can connect some weird dots to arrive at the answer they believe.
First, STOP with the social media stalking at meet the guy IN PERSON before you start forming an opinion on him. You can't know someone from what you see online PERIOD. As for the other dude I would just act like nothing happened (because it didn't) You rejected him, so why does he need to be brought up. You are worrying about something that may never happen, and if it does, it will be later. If by chance it comes up just be honest. You met on a dating app, never irl, and you weren't feeling it. There's no guy code in play here.
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