Why don't I attract guys as a pretty girl?

[Anonymous]

I am pretty, and have good taste on clothing. Why I am not attractive? I maybe don't have a good personality, but I am kind inside.

[MrOracle]

The most common reason that a pretty girl (that doesn't have an awful personality) has trouble attracting male attention is that she is shy or not outgoing in public/group settings.

Guys risk rejection when they approach a girl, and rejection is not fun to deal with, so guys have learned to show a few signs of interest, and then they look for some positive signs from the girl in return. Shy/introverted girls tend to look away, or look uncomfortable, and they give off body language that says "I'm not interested." Often she doesn't really think that, but shyness and disinterest have the same reactions, and so guys mostly assume it's disinterest.

If you can find it within you to be more outgoing, to laugh and be seen having fun, and to include guys you are interested in to your conversations, you will get a lot more interest - guys will feel more comfortable taking a chance and risking rejection.

[MystiKaL]

Depends on how you portray yourself. If you come across as someone who loves herself and thinks most men are beneath her (even if that is not your personality) then you're gonna scare men away.

You have to show a warm glow from inside to attract. That means unpeeling some of the layers of guard you're showing and displaying your warm and loving side.

[AddylynnNightingale]

We can't see what others are like on the inside. You're going to be more open towards the world about that.

[FilmGuy93]

How outwardly friendly and interactive are you with the world around you.

[mickmrly]

You’ve mentioned in one of the comments that the men are just interested in casual sex, so it isn’t that you don’t attract guys, it’s more only the shallower guys are interacting with you. For better guys, I think it would help to be a bit more outgoing as it is hard for men to read women these days, and it should encourage more positive attention.

[Anonymous]

It's because wise men care about more than your body or your physical appearance. And most are getting smarter and not wanting to put up with women who have nothing to offer but going to bed with men.

You can have degenerate bad boys who care about what you are wearing.

[Fireguy17]

Your personality will always come out.
If you aren't a nice person on the inside it doesn't matter how you look on the outside.
Maybe ask a couple of close friends what they think about your personality.

[20yearsolder]

If you don't have a good personality, that's a damn good reason that you don't attract a guys. Maybe you should work on your personality

[Anonymous]

You say they aren't looking for a serious relationship but I bet you've never considered how getting into one would benefit them...

[BJP21]

It maybe the way you "carry" yourself. Its something we guys see that you may not can be a bit off putting.

[Anonymous]

I’m sure you do. Maybe they are shy.

[Asker]

Hmm they're not looking for a serious relationship with me, just casual sex

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah this generation is kind of like that. Keep your eyes peeled, still some good ones out there.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

You're probably not pretty.

[In_Trance]

Must be something you're saying or doing (or not)

[Anonymous]

Because you are emotionally unavailable.

[BOYFRIENDDONG]

A pic would help answer