Guy relationship troubles?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend told me this I don't know how he can make it up to me

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So the pain of what was said was 50/50 u hurted my feelings and I hurted yours but u don't see me dragging you about it and you want to know how I truly feel I feel like I can't talk to you about problems or problems you might have without you talking it offensively because you can't handle criticism it might hurt but it could help fix our relationship but u can't handle it and it just turns into this big argument

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and my feelings to you remotely don't matter to the smallest bit like oh maybe he said all of this and was mad because of something I had said, and I honestly keep trying day by day to be a better person in our relationship no matter how bad things are I always try to turn it around and try to do better

[summiter]

Texts in the middle of the night are not always a good idea. Meet up with him when you both are awake and maybe go for a walk and talk.. don't text about things and see how that goes. Are you having sex with him? If so how is that going?

[Asker]

Okay that sounds good snd it's great he thinks it'll solve everything

[summiter]

I hope it works out... just be open minded... how sexually involved with him are you?

[Asker]

Very we were just talking about marriage and promise rings

[summiter]

Well that sounds serious. Try to talk openly with him now... do not wait to become more involved or even engaged with him. You need to know his honest feelings ahead of time. It is ok to talk about sex and feelings... it is healthy in a relationship.

[Asker]

Yes and after that maybe we may do therapy

[summiter]

Great idea... I really hope things work out for both of you... hang in there!

[Asker]

Thanks

[summiter]

Stay in touch and feel free to PM me if you ever have any? you will always get an honest answer.

[Asker]

Thanks for the help

[Jamie05rhs]

Don't ever force a man to talk to you when he's tired. You're just asking for problems.

Having said that, what he said was still so atrocious and over the line that I think you guys should break up.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Guy13]

You can not make him into what he is NOT, therefore, he is likely NOT the one for you. Both are immature and neither have any understanding of how each other Types (Men vs Women) communicate….

[In_Trance]

Wtf is this over dramatic bullshit? Make a decision. Are you in or out?

[spartan55]

Try being happy with what he says/does maybe once.