Guy and relationship?

[Dominqueslutttt]

If the guy only wanted to hook up with a girl but after the girl refused, he was actively meeting other girls or sleeping with them but after getting to know the girl after 2 years, he decided to with her.

Would he accept a guy like this for a relationship?

[kylee2437]

People can accept whatever they want. Within a 2 year span, people have capability to change their ways and their view points on life. Maybe he saw value in the fact that she wouldn’t accept a random hook up with him. From what I’ve learned, men actually tend to gain larger amounts of respect for you when you don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

[Dominqueslutttt]

But he was quite sulky at first and he wasn't stopping seeing other women and flirting with them. So how can he suddenly change and fall for a girl with whom he was sulky?

[kylee2437]

Because he most likely looked inward and realized that woman was right for not wanting to randomly hook up with someone that has no interest in a relationship.

[Dominqueslutttt]

But why would he suddenly want to date her?

[kylee2437]

Because she’s valuable for not accepting random hook ups. Probably found her personality interesting on top of that.

[Dominqueslutttt]

but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions.

There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018 and she was his close guy friends girlfriend. But they broke up. However, he seems way too close with this girl. She keeps throwing herself at him to hug him and tries to touch his hand, hold his hand. She was even touching his hair, telling him how rough his hair looks. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. She keeps introducing him to her friends, inviting him to events and constantly messaging him.

I think she tried to tell him that she wanted more but he started to get distant from her and getting angry at her when she tried to tell him. My friend who works with him at the cafe (part time) saw them and witnessed their conversation.

But even after this, she's still messaging him, trying to hold his hand, hugging him etc.

He also seems to have only female friends because he keeps a public calender next to my desk and each person he writes down for meet up is a girl. I also saw a picture of him on a couch with another girl and their legs very touching each other.

I find it very uncomfortable that he seems to encourage these women to touch him and seemingly has no boundaries with women whatsoever.

However, with me, he is different. Initially, he would hug but I declined to have casual sex and he stopped hugging or touching me. He became sulky and passive aggressive with me. He acts reserved and stoic with me whereas with other women he is laughing, talking etc.

He also said that he's distant in relationships and detached even though when I propose to cut all communication with him, he protested and had a meltdown that we couldn't stop talking.

[kylee2437]

What you wrote out seems copy and pasted, my explanation ends here.

[Dominqueslutttt]

Yes because this is more info about him so can you tell?

[Wise4myage]

i think she would as long as she could trust him and she believed he was ready to settle for one girl.