Feeling very insecure?

[Cindy911]

I've been dating this guy for a about a week. We have a lot in common things are going great. I think we are getting to the point where we wants to have intercourse. But there is a little secret he does not know about me. That I've been stuffing my bra with padding to improve the size. I am in between A/B cup with the padding it makes it a C cup. Do you think he's going to be discouraged when he finds out

[PrettyPriya]

First, let me ask why you are insecure about that size. Is there something wrong with your size? I only ask because I have the opposite problem. I am not very big, meaning I am not tall and quite slender. My bust is a D cup. Do you know how annoying it is?

Bigger is not better. I already have neck and back issues on occasion, even with the best of bras. So, the grass is not always greener as they say. I have also noticed in my life that breast size is not really an issue for the majority of guys.

What is going to be an issue is you being deceitful about it. That is very off-putting to anyone. There is also no need for it whatsoever. If he is dating you for your fake bust size, he is not the guy for you.

That is very shallow and you shouldn't be with him if he places that much importance on breast size. He should care much more about your personality, morals and character. You need to stop stuffing your bra and be who you are.

[WonderBell99]

Probably. Most guys are not that shallow and do not care much about bra size if they really like a girl, that is something they can look past. We all have preferences, but we cannot always expect our partner to have all those qualities, can we?

The problem here is not your breasts being small, but rather you trying to deceive him. It is okay, you have not had intercourse yet and I'm assuming you have not explicitly stated your bra size to him. The next time you meet him, do not alter your bra size. Leave it be, stop stuffing it with tissues or padding and try to be comfortable in your own skin.

[WonderBell99]

IF he does stop seeing you because he feels like they are small, it is not your fault, but I highly doubt that would happen. You really should try to overcome your insecurities though. It is OK to have small breasts. On the brighter side, you do not have to deal with those annoying back aches often!

[Keyboardkat]

I may be old-fashioned, but I happen to think one week is a little bit too soon for intercourse. Sex should be the LAST thing that happens in a couple's discovery of one another. Sex is supposed to MEAN something! Love and commitment is supposed to have something to do with it! Radio psychologist Dr. Joy Brown used to say a woman must have two things before she agrees to have sex with a man: A ring and a wedding date! If you're not ready to commit to marrying him, then why are you jumping into bed with him?

[Guy13]

It depends when he realizes it. Lights off...

[mT2359]

If he is into you... No amount of stuffing is going to come in between the two of u... If he is not into you... You can stuff yourself further... He won't stuff Your Turkey on Thanksgiving.

[JPresidente]

It shouldn’t make a difference. Guys don’t care that much about boob size.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes he will feel deceived. Best to stop stuffing next date

[NewtoTheSouth]

Yeah, he will be. I went out with a girl who did the same. She looked like a A cup but was really an A cup. I was disappointed.

[Keyboardkat]

What? Read your answer. I think you misspoke, or miswrote what you mean.

[In_Trance]

You think he may be discouraged because you want him to accept you but you don't accept yourself?

[bowenw]

Unless he'd shallow he won't care.

[Luckycharms12]

He will not care one bit