I was talking with a guy for some weeks and at first he seems interested about me and wanted to meet me once I come back from my trip in our city. Recently I asked him we can meet together as he suggested and his reply was that :
“ I don’t think I can have romantic relationship with you but it would be great if we can continue to be friends.”
I am honestly very hurt and sad extremely sad. Could it because I told him that I have never had a boyfriend at 30 years old! Or could it be how I look I don’t know but I’m extremely heartbroken. This guy is 38 years old I thought maybe because he is already so mature he wouldn’t play games.
I don’t know what to do about this I only keep crying even typing this post.. I’m sad because I really liked this guy and I am even so stupid and loyal thinking about him..
why would a guy say I don’t think I can romantic relationship with you without meeting in person and simply by video chat so far
Should I continue to be fiends with him and meet him for a coffee?
“ I don’t think I can have romantic relationship with you but it would be great if we can continue to be friends.”
I am honestly very hurt and sad extremely sad. Could it because I told him that I have never had a boyfriend at 30 years old! Or could it be how I look I don’t know but I’m extremely heartbroken. This guy is 38 years old I thought maybe because he is already so mature he wouldn’t play games.
I don’t know what to do about this I only keep crying even typing this post.. I’m sad because I really liked this guy and I am even so stupid and loyal thinking about him..
why would a guy say I don’t think I can romantic relationship with you without meeting in person and simply by video chat so far
Should I continue to be fiends with him and meet him for a coffee?
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It’s impossible to have sex unless in person. I don’t get it
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So to explain the situation easily. I’m from NJ and I’m in an exchange program in Germany. For a semester. But I will eventually go back in NJ this 10 December. We met in an app related to this program. He is 38 and I’m 30. We started chatting firstly and calling also video call. He told me my voice is amazing such a sweet voice I love it and you are so cute. He suggested we talk until I go back to NJ. Then today I messaged him I’m happy to be back and meet him. He said “ I don’t think I can be in a romantic relationship with you but we can be good friends and meet if you want”
It came out of nowhere. Now my mind is thinking maybe because I told him I never had a boyfriend he got scared? I don’t know it’s silly I know but I’m crying a river. I don’t know why does it hurt so much I know myself and I know I don’t deserve this heartbreak. I am
Not an angel but I never do random hookup and with this guy I was loyal too. Meaning I never talked to anyone else or have a chance to anyone.
I didn’t know what to say back so I told him not to worry I also don’t have any romantic feelings with anyone yet and that even finding good friends it’s hard
I don’t know like only 2 weeks ago he send me pic of him playing and pic of his nephew etc so suddenly he stopped contacting too doesn’t message everyday as he used too
Wow…have fun back in the States. I bet you’re excited. Like 5 days…already packed 😎
try flying 3000 miles to get stood up and try traveling 100+ miles for the same woman just to get stood up then come and tell me how it feels
I don’t understand
Did you go through this too? I’m
Sorry :(
He's fucking someone else