Is this normal about texting?

[Anonymous]

So Im dating that guy… We had years that we know each other but not closely … and we have been in 3 dates… Having good time and kissing..

the case is that regarding texting he text to me every morning eArly and 2 times during the day… sometimes sending video or voice message… when we talk he said that he is busy with work and maybe this is the reason..

we have 1 week without seeing each other.. he said to me that maybe he will see me today… but now he said that with much possibility he will not be able cause has a lot of work…

isn't he into me?
i just send him a text that maybe we are loosing each other time, since he seems not interested

[SnowedIn]

I'm confused. You say he texts you in the morning and throughout the day but then you're asking if he's not interested. If he's texting you that much I'd say he's interested. And normal.

[Asker]

I said that I only received from him 3 messages or so during the day... they are not dry, and sometimes he send long voice message but they are less that generally expected from two people that wants to know each other and are dating...

[SnowedIn]

I get it now. So, I believe that that's actually a lot for a person who probably also has a job and probably assumes you have a job and obligations during the day.

Based on what you originally wrote and your reply to my question, I don't think he's not interested. Just busy. And I think that may be you both have different expectations about communicating at this stage of your relationship. So, yes, to your question, and yes he's still interested.

[Asker]

Thank you!
I needed to hear that… You know its not something surprising to me cause Im not e big texter myself.. but my besfriend is keeping telling me that this isn't normal and we should text all day

[SnowedIn]

That makes total sense. I think it's normal depending on the day that someone has. :)

[spartan55]

You don't sound like you are interested either.

[Wise4myage]

Seems quite normal to me.