How to get a shy guy to open up to you?

[Anonymous]

[Ms_Facesitter]

Time, you invest a lot of time in that person until they feel comfortable enough to open up to you. That's the trick. The more at ease they feel with you, the more they feel like they can be themselves around you. But that takes time :) but doesn't every strong bond?

[tiamatx]

You can break through his shyness by eliciting mutual emotion. Do something wild with him. Rollercoaster, bungee jumping, go-karts, visiting an active volcano, etc. Men also have emotions, even if concealed. Just find a stronger emotion that will pierce through the shield of shyness ;)

[Asker]

I want to get to know him more. The last time I saw him, I initiated contact. So when I see him again, wait for him to initiate contact?

[tiamatx]

If he is really shy - you will wait for eternity. We are not in 19th century anymore, go and get him!

But there is a catch: is it him being shy or indecisive, passive and childish? Sorry for this, but when you have sex, will it also be always you to initiate everything? Go and get him, let him blossom, if he doesn't - I see a hard time for you.

[Avcfhcic]

Allow him to take his time. Be persistent. Make it a chilled environment and maybe prone a bit at what you want to know!
Different people need added trust if they've been hurt before!

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as a "shy guy," it's a phony guy on here (you) who keeps posting these harassing questions.

[Asker]

LOL huh? 😂😂😂

[tiamatx]

Trust me there are shy guys

[In_Trance]

be patient and talk to him the way you'd want him to talk to you

[panamared1]

Smile and be friendly

[boggboss]

By talking to him