This guy I’m friends with keeps complimenting me, deliberately annoying me trying to be funny, always calls me love or Bub, sends me snaps of him dancing or being goofy or funny tik toks all the time cause he’s trying to make me laugh, calls me at midnight some nights cause he just wants to talk and when I’m with him sometimes I catch him staring at me with a goofy little smirk.
But he recently said to me how he has feelings for someone that came all of a sudden and hit him like a truck. He never said who he just said “someone” that’s all I got I didn’t pry cause i felt that if he wanted me to know who he’d tell me but even tho he’s saying he has feelings for someone he’s still got that goofy little smirk everytime he looks at me and showers me with compliments and looks after me and teases me and it seems he always wants my attention. Everytime he gets drunk I get a phone call no matter the time or day just to babble drunken nonsense to me and ask me a million questions about myself. Just a little confused as to where his heads at
He likes you and is being immature about it cause he wants to see how you will react and see if you will be jealous or sad or whatever. Its a guy thing. The more he spends with you and keeps getting close to you, the other girl, if there is one, won't really matter anymore. Cause you can't spend that much time with someone and not gain feelings for them
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It sounds like he has put you in the Friendzone, There is not that many of you Girls who have experienced the Friendzone.
He sounds like he isn't that Shy so he sounds like he's a Player so either get use to it if you really like him or you can just ignore him because he is not going to change.
There could be a couple reasons one he might want attention to he could want sex from you three he might be trying to make his partner jealous or possibly he's insecure as well.
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The same reason that when a farmer plants crops he doesn't plant just one seed.
Maybe he's flirty with most women.
They cannot decide
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